Hope you are doing a little bit better today.You have gotten some good advice from slik_kitty.It's hard to when you first start the reverse but as you do it more it'll get easier.It takes a lot of work cause it begins from inside to the outside of you.Sometimes a change is what a person needs to turn things around.
I hope you will take slik's advice then you will see your true strength and stand tall.I don't wish for you to stay away,I'll be here if you want someone to listen.You don't have to go at this alone ask for help there too.Believe that you have better days coming in front of you.
I think this time is the right moment to really lean on God.He aint never left you just waiting on you.He knows you're tired and wants you to let him in.You can go to him with anything that is going on with you.
Hope you'll seek help of some sort from those you can trust.View Thread
I'm not gonna put you out like some did but I read about you else where.It's 2014 a brand new year to do things a little different but the same old BS and DAB's.And it's crazy cause I thought you got punish for telling a lie but not the truth.Here's the realization of it this they left you for real.Abandon to walk alone and it looks like it was done on purpose.Been meaning to tell you they are hella fake.They gotta be on those flippers.
All of this talk about this and that don't make sense with no action.Don't matter what I say here someone is gonna feel some type of way but that's their problem.This year seek out supports that willing and able to do just that.You have been pushed down one of life's darkest pothole but show them you refuse to stay there.You may find this hard to believe but they made their choice of not wanna to deal with you and it's not cause of me.They just got ghost on you which brings what I have been saying to light.
Real supporters don't judge,speculate or leave you in the dark.They don't run from the painful truth of any situation .They will see you through the storm that you are going through when it's not your fault.You're in deep trouble and a quicksand of emotions,with not one person turn to that had anything to do with it.They don't understand and you can't depend on any of them.Real supports don't have a cold heart or those they care about for real.
They are not here to pick you up,brush you off and wipe your tears away.I'm just being honest and because they are careless they want to silence the speaker.I read some stories and the pain that have been shadowing people for years.Some people are not concern about the pain they cause others and the use-to-bees don't even bother to say a single word to the one in pain.
If you wanna talk about whatever then I'm when ever.Be grateful you're not a member of the old evil bats crew.
I know this wouldn't get any hits but that's not motivates me here.Since I'm not clear about what it is that people want me to leave in the past then I'm speak my mind.
I see the big picture and I'm stay on point.I may not be the smartest person in the world but I do have common sense.As a woman and a mother I have a responsibility to my family.We learn by doing which some don't seem really understand.
I'm give to you straight up and anyone who has been abused is sensitive to certain issues.You can't put someone on a sliver platter and serve them to their predator.Putting people in that kind of spot is well STUPID real talk.Because Just hear about things like that brings my family to mind.If anyone ever put any of my family in a place like that then I'll hunt them down.
I would walk to the end of the earth to find them.What really has me enrage is that people using the excuse of it being drama when it's just a cover.To get the pressure of you and it's sad cause the real reason is that you ABANDON the people.Walked away and didn't even attempt to look back.Having a heart it tears you up seeing people hurt that way and be buried by your own kind.
I don't care if you agree or not cause I can't hear myself telling anyone in my family those words.If it was your child you wouldn't tell him/her that's it's time to put it in the past or say to them you're sick of the drama.Do you know the kind of fear that grips you to have that happen to your child?...Do you know that the emotions and stress of the situation will leave you drain?
Talking about this is not to cause drama for anyone you.No one really care too much for anyway maybe because I take this abuse stuff serious and a little deeper than you.Or maybe you can't wrap your mind around this issueView Thread
They think someone's life is something to mes over then turn around and laugh about it.I think they deliberately did what they did to a few people on this board.
I'm try to keep this one clean but I can't promise nothing tho.I didn't just come here making all this noise for two or three people but for myself.I don't get this time frame business that some put on you.Cause for anyone who has or have been abused it don't come with a time or date stamped with it.After being raped,abused or violated there is no time frame on that regardless of what someone say.Some things just hit you outta the blue and some come up when that person is willing and able to deal with it.
It can take years before someone even realize that something is off in their life and some time after the realization of it set in.Some people go half of their life without confronting their issues.What take a person months to get over may take someone else longer so you can't come at me with that mess about the past.It doesn't matter if it happened 6 months,6 years or 6 decades ago it depends on the person.Take that past bull and toss out the window with the rest.
I couldn't walk away from this issue for one the situation was foul.Two I know the feeling of being betrayed by your supporters.I don't know SK but I know the situation.Just like abuse that kind of thing stays with a person and makes it worst when the person is being forced to let it go.The main key players in all of this is just hanging back and not saying anything.But this is what they do more than it needed to be.These girls are like tornadoes that touch down,do their damage and you're left to deal with things.They'll move on to somewhere else and you're stuck with the pain and suffering of their actions.
I know what it's like to be threaten,stalked,have people invade your life,afraid to sleep in your own home because you don't feel safe and you trusted these people.So if it makes me wrong for standing up for someone you need someone to speak for them then I don't wanna be right.Still nobody here to help her cause they are still in the trenches of this.I don't have guilt,remorse,respect or manners for anyone who won't even acknowledge that they cause one pain and put them in harms way.Or anyone who support or tolerate this kind of abuse and don't care what others gotta say.
Then you wanna get your granny panties in a bunch when someone come at you.I'm not friendly and that's off the rip it's cool but I'm still speak the truth.If I'm suppose to be a real and loyal supporter than that's what I'm do when being asked too.
How does it feel to abuse someone that came here for help?View Thread
I'm only one and that's it and you should be sick of just assuming things.That's what has this site in the shape it's in now.You do your dirt and then hide like a coward instead of dealing with it.
Put all jokes aside it's not fun when for the ones that get hurt from your BS.The only thing that split on here is you and I get right.You can call me whatever but one thing is true is I'm not a liar like you.I'm not gonna run and hide like you and your get along gang.