lookingup41

Joined: 02/26/2010
My Story:
I am a 27-year-old female with genital HSV1. I was diagnosed in December 2009 with a positive culture and negative IgG blood test. I was not having intercourse with my boyfriend at the time, so this result was not unexpected. He carries the virus orally, but has never had a cold sore. Still, I contracted the virus. I am now single and do not plan to have children.

I have had limited sexual partners, all long term relationships, all tested for STDs/HIV. I am vigilant about my sexual health - probably due in part to a little OCD;) I am independent, smart, masters educated, own my own home, work full time etc. This really can happen to anyone! I am just praying that this does not effect my future relationships. I have researched HSV extensively and highly recommend Terri Warren's Handbook available at Westover Clinic online and her book "The Good News About the Bad News". This exchange is an invaluable resource for those looking for answers and those of us who find strength in providing them.

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Reply: Question about the Incubation Period/Symptoms of F...
Herpes is spread from skin to skin contact. If your genitals did not touch her genitals...More
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Are you stressed about something particular. You may want to consider suppressive...More
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Your results are negative...however, three weeks may not have been long enough for the...More
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Aunt can be your mom's sister, but in this case it is your aunt through marriage I am...More
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My boyfriend has never had a cold sore in his life, but gave me HSV1 genitally - so it...More
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Reply: I could really use an Experts opinion
I am sorry,,,I forgot that you were both women. I was confused how a man uses a clothed...More
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Reply: Statistics of HSV 1 genital transmission??? herpes...
When was your blood test? Was it the same time you had the culture? If you have a blood...More
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Reply: I could really use an Experts opinion
Having clothing on does not protect from genital to genital contact does it? Don't be...More
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Reply: Herpes/Never had an out break
IgG is just the type of test it appears the lab used based on your numerical results....More
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Reply: Cld my partner not have it?
Do you KNOW that your partner does not have HSV? Did you find out you had it before you...More
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