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Herpes is spread from skin to skin contact. If your genitals did not touch her genitals...
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Herpes is spread from skin to skin contact. If your genitals did not touch her genitals then there is no risk, in my opinion. The stomach pains are common of a woman's period and not herpes. Herpes initial OB is more flu-like symptoms...aches, pains, fever. Don't stress - mutual masturbation is not a risk.View Thread
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Reply: OB's
Are you stressed about something particular. You may want to consider suppressive...
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Are you stressed about something particular. You may want to consider suppressive therapy like Valtrax. It should lessen the frequency and severity of the OB's. Good luck! OBs suck!View Thread
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Reply: Test result:
Your results are negative...however, three weeks may not have been long enough for the...
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Your results are negative...however, three weeks may not have been long enough for the test to be accurate. The body can take months to make the antibodies that the test detects. I would retest after three months if you are still concerned.View Thread
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Reply: woman instinct
Aunt can be your mom's sister, but in this case it is your aunt through marriage I am...
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Aunt can be your mom's sister, but in this case it is your aunt through marriage I am assuming. This is very slippery slope. Really think about the consequences...I don't know that it is a good idea.View Thread
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Reply: need help
My boyfriend has never had a cold sore in his life, but gave me HSV1 genitally - so it...
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My boyfriend has never had a cold sore in his life, but gave me HSV1 genitally - so it is very possible. Most people who have the cold sore virus don't get cold sores. Don't assume infidelity. If you have both only been with each other, it has to be HSV1. Let us know what the results show!View Thread
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Reply: I could really use an Experts opinion
I am sorry,,,I forgot that you were both women. I was confused how a man uses a clothed...
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I am sorry,,,I forgot that you were both women. I was confused how a man uses a clothed penis!View Thread
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Reply: Statistics of HSV 1 genital transmission??? herpes...
When was your blood test? Was it the same time you had the culture? If you have a blood...
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When was your blood test? Was it the same time you had the culture? If you have a blood test now that is negative you may want to look into a western blot...I have always heard a positive culture is very reliable. Your blood work could have negative 2 years ago if it was a brand new infection. (My blood work was negative initially too) I don't know the rates of transmission, but HSV1 sheds much less frequently from the genitals than HSV2...You would be more likely to spread it to his mouth since that is the preferred region for HSV1. I would have him tested as 50% of people already carry HSV1 orally...then none of this would be a concern! Oh, and I take daily meds for genital HSV1 because any reduction in outbreaks or risk of transmission is worth it to me.View Thread
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Reply: I could really use an Experts opinion
Having clothing on does not protect from genital to genital contact does it? Don't be...
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Having clothing on does not protect from genital to genital contact does it? Don't be overly concerned about spreading HSV2 to her face, fingers etc., as it prefers the genital region and is rarely transmitted anywhere outside the boxer short area. My understanding is it is possible, but uncommon. As far as "knowing" you are asymptomatic, that is not possible. People shed the virus and don't have symptoms...so don't assume you will know. If you give her oral sex you will not spread it to her genitals. If you have it genitally and your genitals are not involved, then that is not a concern. If you were diagnosed positively with a swab, then you can be confident in those results and really don't need an IgG blood test. The only thing it might tell you is whether you have HSV1 too, which is more than likely an oral infection (cold sores)View Thread
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Reply: Herpes/Never had an out break
IgG is just the type of test it appears the lab used based on your numerical results....
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IgG is just the type of test it appears the lab used based on your numerical results. It can tell you whether someone has HSV1 or 2. IgG is much more accurate that IgM, which is not recommended. The gold standard is the western blot if you feel you need confirmatory testing. It also is a blood test, but is only performed in one place (Washington) and can be costly.View Thread
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Reply: Cld my partner not have it?
Do you KNOW that your partner does not have HSV? Did you find out you had it before you...
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Do you KNOW that your partner does not have HSV? Did you find out you had it before you began dating this person? If not, you could have gotten this from your partner. I would make sure you are certain of both of your statuses and go from there. If contracting HSV is not a concern for your partner, than unprotected sex is not an issue. Condoms and Valtrex are also very effective.View Thread
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