See All
Preferences
My Communities
My Discussions
My Email Digests


And the meds will have LOWER the chances of passing this to your partner. It does not eliminate the chances. That is why it is important to have the talk.View Thread

Now I know everyone has a different situation and some people dont have someone to talk to, but fortunately I was able to share this with my family and friends. I automatically assumed that after I told them, I would be treated like I had the plague... NOPE. They still didn't see me any other way. So then dating came into play again. I started out looking for people in the same situation, just so I can make friends and ask how they went about the "talk"... It has been fine. I have met men without and men with it. And the men I have met with it, had NO problem with it. They valued my honesty as opposed to me thinking "maybe I wont pass it and so I don't have to tell them"...
Take care of yourself first. Get the facts and learn more. If you are embarrassed about having hsv2, then you are not going to have confidence in yourself when you have the talk with a future partner. In my experience, when I told a partner about my situation (probably my first talk after finding out, so I was still "embarrassed"), I made it seem like there was something "wrong" with me, therefore, turning him away. However, the next time around, I was more calm and collective, had the answers to the things he had asked. Talked about preventable measures, and he accepted me. So dating is possible. Just guard your heart and take precaution.View Thread

If you have never had an outbreak, I don't see why you would take a daily suppressive therapy UNLESS you are activley dating and do not want to pass this to your partner. Also, you do need to have the talk with your partner. First read the facts and learn more about what you are dealing with, that way if any questions come up, you will have an answer. And ask about his std history. This is a must have converstion. Do not think that just because you are not having an outbreak, that this will not spread.
Abe posted a great "tip" on hsv and transmission statistics. But do keep in mind, if he does not have hsv, then he does not have the antibodies that you do. Good Luck!View Thread

I am so looking forward to this weekend;)View Thread


NOW I have new questions;) hahaView Thread

As for location, genital herpes can appear in a "boxer short" area. Which is basically from your waist to your mid thigh. I tend to have the same ob in the exact same spot every time. But everyone is different. I hope this helps:o)View Thread

And what I meant about the medz was, since I don't take them on a daily basis, when I do have an ob, the medz actually seem to team up with my immune system and I heal that much faster. I always seem to get an ob during my cycle. So in the past year and a half, I have done my own trial and error on how the medz help me and what my triggers are. I know exactly how they work and am all for them:) And I prefer my body to fight the virus on its own before resorting to alternatives:)View Thread
See Related Sex & Relationships Communities
Women's Health Newsletter
Find out what women really need.
Other Sexual Conditions & STDs Information
More Related Communities
The opinions expressed in WebMD User-generated content areas like communities, reviews, ratings, or blogs are solely those of the User, who may or may not have medical or scientific training. These opinions do not represent the opinions of WebMD. User-generated content areas are not reviewed by a WebMD physician or any member of the WebMD editorial staff for accuracy, balance, objectivity, or any other reason except for compliance with our Terms and Conditions. Some of these opinions may contain information about treatments or uses of drug products that have not been approved by the U.S. Food and Drug Administration. WebMD does not endorse any specific product, service, or treatment.
Do not consider WebMD User-generated content as medical advice. Never delay or disregard seeking professional medical advice from your doctor or other qualified healthcare provider because of something you have read on WebMD. You should always speak with your doctor before you start, stop, or change any prescribed part of your care plan or treatment. WebMD understands that reading individual, real-life experiences can be a helpful resource, but it is never a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment from a qualified health care provider. If you think you may have a medical emergency, call your doctor or dial 911 immediately.
Health Solutions From Our Sponsors
©2005-2013 WebMD, LLC. All rights reserved.
WebMD does not provide medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. See additional information.



