I'm 18 years old. I'm a a virgin going into college. I have given and received head from three guys. Two had never done anything before me with anyone so I never had anxiety. The third guy had received head from two different girls, both of which had multiple partners I'm sure. So I then developed anxiety. I got tested a few months ago and don't have anything. That third guy who had history before me got tested as well and was clean.
If there's a guy in college who has only given/received head with his girlfriend who hadn't done anything before him (no partners besides him) and this guy is a virgin as well and hasn't had any partners besides here, am I okay to have unprotected oral sex but protected sex with him? There's nothing I can get, right?
Please help, I don't want to be this way forever. I don't want to not have a sexual aspect of my relationships just because of my health anxiety. I've done my research on STDs and HPV, I know a hell of a lot more than the average 18 year old. I'm very conscientious about my health. But please, just understand I want to try to be normal. My basic question is would it be okay and safe to have sexual relations with this boy in college? And I wouldn't have to have anxiety about it?View Thread
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