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Sounds great! How long did you know your guy before you told him? I think I tell too soon. I was dating this guy for about 1 month but it was getting to the "intimacy" stage soon I could see it coming. So I told. Maybe I need to wait until I really know the guy. I thought I knew him and believed all the stuff he told me about finally finding someone like me etc... blah blah blah. Then he didn't even have the compassion or empathy to talk to me and just vanished. I can't help going over everything in my mind for what I may have done wrong?View Thread

I would call the gyno or ask when you go in if this is related.
keep smiling - there are tons of us in the same boat!
kath.View Thread

Anyway, I am sooooo happy for you and hopeful! Enjoy yourself with him at dinner. Keep me posted. I am on Match.com (hated to do that but how else will I meet anyone?) and I am communicating with a very nice man. I am just so scared the same thing will happen. Thank you for giving me hope since you said you've had luck in the past.
Just curious as to how old you are I forgot to ask.
OK well I have to try to stop "sobbing" over this and move on.... Don't forget to keep me posted.

kathView Thread

I'm so happy to hear that your guy seems to be responding and is a mature, caring adult. Unlike the A-hole that I thought was the most fantastic thing I've ever met.
He has completely disappeared off the face of the earth. He hasn't answered any texts or phone calls since Saturday not even when I tell him to please just text me that he is alive and well and would like me to leave him alone. How hard would that be? I think he is a cruel human being for dismissing me the way he did and its all I can think of.
Oh...by the way you asked my age. I am a very very young 47, divorced for 10 years. Getting back into the dating scene with this has been an excruciating experience to say the least.
For all those people out there that post positve wonderful stories of telling their partners....what am I doing wrong???

Anyway, I couldn't possibly contact him again anyway cause I would now be borderline stalker!!!! LoL
Hopefully the next guy is different. Keep me posted
KathView Thread

Since we are both in the same boat, what if your man can't handle it. Will you get right back in the dating game and try again? I need some advice because I am at that point and feel HORRIBLE, unloved, and unwanted. I don't know if I can try again. What's your opinionf?View Thread

What a coward! All he had to do was text me that he dan't do this and it would be over nicely. Instead (which I don't understnad), he is ignoring me even when I text him and ask him to please just put it in a text to me and we can both move on. I can't figure him out cause I thought he really really liked me. Anyway, sounds like there is still hope for you and your guy and it sounds like he at least is honest and kind about it. Keep me posted.View Thread

Just checkin back with you to see how you are doing. I know you were very sad. Have you had any contact from him since?
Keep smiling.View Thread

. I've made it a mission to find someone to spend the rest of my life with and I will not stop until I do even if I have to tell over and over again till I find someone special. I am confident that I can. When I get down, I always remember things that "Betsy 0" has posted here for the past few years. She has an unbelievable attitude and hasn't had much trouble dating and is really an inspiration to everyone on the site. Maybe she will reply to you. I hope
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As was with you, I had prior boyfriends who were fine with it and never caught anything. Since our talk he has backed off a bit, our texts aren't as playful and he doesn't seem that eager to see me as much as we did before I told him.
I am feelinn "unwanted" and "unloved" this past week since I told him. I am planning on seeing him tonight and I will see how he makes me feel. I will end it and move on if things can't be the way they were before. No one should make you feel like you are "broken" or "tainted" and if they do, its up to you to put an end to it. At least we have that control still over our lives even though we can't control how they see this stupid, no big deal issue.
I feel for you girlfriend, my heart is broken as well. Just keep hoping someone else comes along that has more of an open mind.....View Thread

1) Break it off before telling and avoid any heartbreak.
2) Don't say anything and hope for the best thereby denying it all.
3) Tell the truth, lay it on the table and get through it.
I choose to tell the truth and now I just hope he doesn't "disappear" from my life. Please someone tell me I did the right thing.
Is it possible to have someone in my life with this? I am in my forties, divorced and scared I will never find anyone that won't freak out about this.View Thread
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