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The viewing of pornography is the start of many evils. As a preacher has said: "Sin will take you further than you want to go. It will keep you longer than you want to stay, and it will cost you more than you want to pay."
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Saying "BUT she slept with you", depends if the guy had to seduce her or talk her into it. Some guys are very sexy, and smooth with women, plus better able to recognize an energetic sexy girl who might be so open to first date sex, they expect it, or can tell by a woman's behavior.
Me, I'm slim and just not that sexy or so confident. My perception is that women who might have sex on a first date, ie great confidence in themselves, steer clear of me.
If a first date is first opportunity, but long after meeting me, then I have had "first date" sex, a couple months after chatting daily having lunch in a group at work. A 2nd instance, staying at a house overnight, with three women roommates, where I had been before, one late evening I talked one into letting me give her a real face massage. I guess it turned her on. She then got up, and took off her clothes right in front of me and lay down beside me, lights still on. 22, and I would say she had a near perfect slim body. I had the biggest erection of my life, 8 inches easily. I took off my PJs, turned and moved on top of her and inside her, and we humped pretty furiously. And again a few hours later. She never spoke to me again.
But other women I have dated took many dates before that, or it never happened at all.
There's no way to know if she's other than treasure unless she immediately compares you to others and behaves so as to make you feel cheap, so she must be also.
If you've had an incredible date, then great sex at the end is just the icing on the whole thing. If the date was so so, then getting laid at the end would just seem to mean she's horny and I got lucky.View Thread
no i have never shaved down there....interesting thought tho...might help; probably if i shed a few pounds that might help more; i am a pretty husky guy and my fat thighs probably sweat extra and keep the moisture in the folds; perfect for the itch to develop; i bought a pack of boxer briefs and liked them; but after a long day, still had aching balls on occasion; i wondered about wearing my jock strap on extra hot days;holds my balls up but no brief elastic in my crotch/thighs;
course i would miss the fly when i went to take a piss...lol
thanks for responding; i do freeball at home some myself; nothing like itView Thread
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Check with your doctor if a prolonged erect penis become bothersome when using Viagra. My average erection is 20 to 30 minutes. But my wife and I fully enjoy when I am able to keep it up more than a hour. Of course we have to continue to rub each other with oils. Different positions and cavities also helps.
You know an erection lasting more than 4 hour. You should seek medical help to avoid long-term injury. Do not be embrassesd with the big tent. We are talking about the end of your penis sex life.
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You begin on top may be the best. Have you used rear and side sexual positions? Are you having the same issue with oral sex? During foreplay if your wife will milk your prostate gland. This will give you some sensation of a orgasm. Discuss this practice with your doctor.View Thread
You need to openly discuss any fears or anxieties He will confirm you have a healthy attitude about your sexuality and genitals also that you realize that you cannot force yourself to have a sexual response, just as you cannot force yourself to go to sleep or to perspire. The harder you try to have a certain sexual response, the harder it becomes to respond.He will advise you to reduce the pressure, absorb yourself in the pleasure of the moment. Do not worry about whether or when you will ejaculate. He may give you some sex positions and remind you should create a relaxed atmosphere, and should not pressure youself to have ejaculated. Normal a physical exam and medical history are all that's I needed to recommend treatment for delayed ejaculation. To find the best treatment for you, the doctor will first need to determine whether your delayed ejaculation is due to an underlying medical condition, a psychological issue or another concern. However, if delayed ejection appears to be caused by an underlying problem that might need treatment.
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This may include A careful examination of your penis and testicles. The doctor will use light touch to make sure you have normal sensation in your genitals. Blood tests. A sample of your blood may be sent to a lab to check for signs of heart disease, diabetes, low testosterone levels and other health problems. Urine tests (urinalysis). Like blood tests, urine tests are used to look for signs of diabetes, infection and other underlying health conditions None of the test will be painful.
I have used and you may find to be pleasurable Stimulating the penis with a vibrator or other device may determine whether you have a physical (often nervous system) problem. A nervous system (neurological) examination may reveal other nerve problems that are associated with delayed ejaculation.
You know light touches and exam of you penis will make your penis erect. Relax; this is normal for a male.
See the doctor, and tell us what test he does.
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Mixing pleasure and business relationship is like mixing oil with water. I would advise to leave this a fantasy.View Thread
better part of 2 months. Have not been able to ejaculate during intercourse since. Very recently been able to by masturbation.
Hoping things progress soon to be able to have an orgasm during intercourse with my wife.View Thread
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Yes, and I don't worry about it.10% (1)
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My stepdaughter's boyfriend and father of their son, even though American, is not cut. Yet, when it came time to do or don't their son, they had him cut.
Personally speaking, my wife --when we were dating-- prior to the first time she saw mine, she was hoping I was cut. She doesn't "care for" the look of the uncut, so that might have been a deal breaker had I not been cut.
Myself, I don't think there's a "majority"/"minority" issue. You're either cut or you aren't. Your significant other either accepts it/adjusts to it or not. It's along the lines of the penis size debate, why have one? You have what you have, enjoy it!
My wife has become multi-orgasmic. Usually she has at least two: one vaginal; one clitoral. Recently, she had three. My enjoyment in all of it was being the man she had them with, and her encouraging me to thrust harder/deeper. No worries here! hahahahahahaView Thread
I'm not disputing the others by saying 15 lbs., but I was standing profile to my wife --when I still weighed 150-ish-- and asked her: "Where can I lose 15 lbs?" I was laughing, she was not: "You don't need to lose any weight. You're skinny enough already!"
Now, at 45, I'm around 175 and not happy with it. I did do the inches tall thing and my waist size/pants-size is exact. I wear a 34 waist now, up from a 30 in my 20's; 31 in my 30's; and pushed up to a 34 in my 40's. AAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHH! hahahahahahahahahaView Thread
For you it could be one of a number of things and only a doctor can find out, tell you and provide the proper treatment. Seeing a doctor is the best and right thing to do for this problem.View Thread
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The man in the video didn't seem to have any problem enjoying himself (nor did the woman he was with), and no problem having an orgasm either. And my two friends tell me same thing.
Some people in non-circumcising cultures think that how tight a foreskin is simply is just a variation of the penis, like length or girth or whatever.
You say, "there doesn't seem to be any other problems," which I would assume means that (1) sex feels good to you (and to your partner) and (2) you are able to have an orgasm. If so, not seeing "even a tiny portion of the glans" would not bother me. (If you are American, most people including many/most doctors consider having an exposed glans to be "required" for good sex. It is not something that is required for good sex.)View Thread
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