I'm a 60-year old male widower. I dearly loved my wife of 36 years, who passed away 15 months ago. The grief was horrible, but I'm finally learning to live alone again. Although she's gone, she'll never leave my heart.
We had a very full and active sex life right up until she became ill 2 years ago. We enjoyed all forms of sex, oral, mutual masturbation, toys, even anal sex (she enjoyed that as much as me).
I haven't had sex in 2 years. The grief of losing my wife pretty much eliminated any desires, until lately. I'm still young acting, I 'm in great health, and I could probably pass for my late 40's or early 50's.
Anyway, I really don't have an interest in another romantic relationship. My heart still belongs to my soul mate, my late wife. But I do really desire some good sex again. The kind of relationship I'd ideally like to have is what I think is called a "friend with benefits". I enjoy women's company, and treating them like ladies, but honestly I really just would like to have some good sex with a woman who is looking for the same, but not looking for a husband or a committed partner.
Problem is, I really desire a younger woman, someone maybe in her 30's or 40's. And I have simply no idea where or how to start looking. I'm not a drinker, the bar thing just isn't me. A friend said try Craig's List, that turned out to be almost a joke with all the fake responses. I've looked into these websites like Ashley Madison (is that right?) and others, they seem like money-grabbing scams to me.
It can't be THAT difficult in today's society to just find a lady who has sexual needs like me, but I'm totally honest when I say I have no idea whatsoever how to even get started looking. I know it will probably be extra hard being I'd like to find a younger woman. I really want to enjoy the sexual energy a younger lady would have to offer. It seems like unless I lie about my age (which I don't want to do) younger women would just pass me by without even considering me.
I still have plenty of sexuality left, and it would seem that what I'm looking for isn't that much out of the ordinary. Where do I start?View Thread
My husband and I have been disagreeing on the topic of women and orgasming. I have tried to explain to him...
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My husband and I have been disagreeing on the topic of women and orgasming. I have tried to explain to him that not all women orgasm every time they have sex, like myself. I really only after clitoral stimulation, he feels he is not pleasing me because of this. Is this normal to not orgasm every time you have sex or what?View Thread
Hello, I'm a male. I have abstained for sex in the last couple of years. I tested negative for HIV last summer. About 10 days ago I had an encounter with another guy at the gym. After working out he invited me to his car and invited me in. We traded blowjobs for about fifteen minutes. We Didn't ejaculate at all, but sure some Pre cum was present. Don't recall any open sores or bleeding in my mouth and didn't see any on him as well. I had just come out from a cold a few days ago before that but was feeling well already when that happened. Hugely regret this descision. Don't know the guys' status but looks like he sleeps around with a lot of guys. I don't do random hook ups except for this one time as a result of a poor decision. I'm really worried about the whole HIV situation even though a lot of people say it's low risk... I think I'm losing it guys! Any words of advice? I know I messed up big is testing even warranted on this situation?View Thread
I think massage basically give your body relaxation and to remove your brain working pressure by give slow stroke. So, my experience is to get relief is to depend on brain tension to reducing through massage to give you positive response in required phenomena.View Thread
Hi,[br>[br>So I've been dating my boyfriend for 3 years now, and within the last 6 months he's been getting stinging inside his penis when I try to give him oral. The slightest saliva on his penis and he gets a really bad stinging and it can last a couple days. He says the stinging goes deep down into his urethra. We're both completely monogamous and we've both been tested of STDS, so that's pretty much ruled out. Could he be allergic to my saliva? Does anyone have any information that could help?View Thread
I was diagnosed with epididymitis a week ago, but I had to stop taking the ciproflaxin due to the severe side effects. Now what I want to know is does having this affect my ability to get an erection? Im an active 25 year old. as of late I've been having trouble maintaining or getting one unless I try hard. Sometimes I even lose my erection during intercourse. I'm very paranoid at the moment since I can't stop thinking of erectile dysfunction. Since my financial status isn't good, I don't think I could afford a specialist. Please help.View Thread
I never knew that my father was uncut until about a month before he passed away and I gave him a shower. He was born at home in 1927. Do any of you know if your fathers were/are uncut? If so, what was the era of his birth? Did you ever discuss him being intact with him? Were you surprised to find out that he was uncut? Also, if so, was he born at home? Thanks for sharing your experiences on the subject.View Thread
I'm a somewhat active 25 year old. For the past two weeks I've been having a few problems. It all started when my right testicle had a bit of pain, it lasted for a few days. Not really sure how to describe the pain other then them feeling somewhat swollen. Once that passed I thought everything would return to normal, but now I'm worried. Since for the past week I haven't woken up with no erection in the morning like normal. That has got me worried. I'm still to get erections, and have intercourse like normal, with regular ejactulations. My penis feels sick and like it's just there. I'm just afraid that I won't be able to get it up if I don't get some help with this problem. I currently have no health insurance, and can't afford to get it checked at the moment.View Thread
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