I'm 34 yrs old. We do not have sex daily. Usually 1 to 2 times a week.
I do work out, all though I do not jog or do cardio, just weights. We have not had sex in over a week. And I'd be lying if I didn't say I'm nervous to even try.
I did drink a lot, well to me more than norm. About 2-3 beers, sometimes 4-6, 4 or more times a week. But that has been going on quite some time. Almost a year.
I also would masterbate atleast three times a week. None of those things appeared to stop me from sex with my wife, until that night I had the issues, or two nights that is. If I look at porn or email with other women I can start to get hard. But it does take longer. Used to take only seconds. And I can last a lot longer.
Are there any stories of guys that have had sexual anxiety or performance anxiety. How long did it take you to recover? What worked to fixed or cure it? I believe now that this is what I may be dealing with. I'm starting to struggle in my mind now. Going crazy. I went from great sex life to none in about 72hrs. I've been married 9 years. I've never had issues getting an erection or keeping one. Now all of the sudden, two times in one week and premature ejaculation.
Any good success stories to help me stop worrying soo much. Its starting to have an effect on the other things in my life.