I am an older male that was born with hypospadias which is a birth defect. If you do nt know what it is, please research it to understand where I am coming from in this discussion. I am not big like some men, therefore I have to work harder when it comes to having intercourse. I have had a hard time staying erected when entering into my wonderful love of my life. What advice or exercises can I pass on to my wife to help me stay erected during this time?View Thread
I was born with hypospadias, but it was corrected many years into my adult life. I am now 51 years old, but I am not what I call a normal size. Whenever I am able to perform sexually, I am not confidant in my performanace and I cannot stay erected or stay in a lady or feel myself in her. I am struggling daily with my confidence and the mdecial part too. I was sexually abused in my childhood about my size and into my adult life. How does one maintain confidence and get past this and to please a woman? Many ladies will not even give me 5 seconds because of my size. I have been to counseling and no one seems to understand my view point and thats why I am in here.View Thread