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Saying "BUT she slept with you", depends if the guy had to seduce her or talk her into it. Some guys are very sexy, and smooth with women, plus better able to recognize an energetic sexy girl who might be so open to first date sex, they expect it, or can tell by a woman's behavior.
Me, I'm slim and just not that sexy or so confident. My perception is that women who might have sex on a first date, ie great confidence in themselves, steer clear of me.
If a first date is first opportunity, but long after meeting me, then I have had "first date" sex, a couple months after chatting daily having lunch in a group at work. A 2nd instance, staying at a house overnight, with three women roommates, where I had been before, one late evening I talked one into letting me give her a real face massage. I guess it turned her on. She then got up, and took off her clothes right in front of me and lay down beside me, lights still on. 22, and I would say she had a near perfect slim body. I had the biggest erection of my life, 8 inches easily. I took off my PJs, turned and moved on top of her and inside her, and we humped pretty furiously. And again a few hours later. She never spoke to me again.
But other women I have dated took many dates before that, or it never happened at all.
There's no way to know if she's other than treasure unless she immediately compares you to others and behaves so as to make you feel cheap, so she must be also.
If you've had an incredible date, then great sex at the end is just the icing on the whole thing. If the date was so so, then getting laid at the end would just seem to mean she's horny and I got lucky.View Thread

That same high blood pressure can be a major trigger for heart disease. I had no performance issues at all right up to my triple bypass surgery. 93% of all my cardiac circulation was blocked.
At 45, its time to change over to a very heart healthy diet, and be sure to get regular moderate exercise for 30-60 minutes almost everyday. And, sorry, the sex does not count as exercise.View Thread
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