Anon_130552, I'm having difficulty understanding the purpose of your poll and how useful it would be to categorize males and females as 'this' or 'that' when they can actually be all over the map. Any one example of either sex can do all kinds of remarkable things but that doesn't mean that a large number of them do.
Again, what sort of a data contour are you looking for here?View Thread
And you need to be able to read what's going on. This morning two guys who knew each other came into the steam room with me wearing just towels which they kept limply wrapped around themselves. While they were having a lively conversation going back and forth one of them kept grabbing and rubbing a fairly substantial package just under his towel (kept hoping I'd get to see it!) but you know, I really don't think he was aware that he was doing it. You know how some guys are!View Thread
It's great that the boys know that squeezing one out is just a normal part of life and being part of a family could be more enjoyable than being shut off alone. But I gotta wonder about the movies the were watching; they weren't just stroking themselves a couple times during a movie because they were bored, were they?View Thread
Yeah, I especially liked to keep them handy to my bunk when I was on board ship in the Navy. There could be weeks without much privacy with boners coming on a regular schedule. Quick and clean was appreciated.
Then there would be those nights in rough seas when the ship would heave up and down. All you had to do was lie on your bunk on your stomach, roll one on and let the movement of the waves and the ship take over -- took "look ma no hands" to a whole new level! And you got to have a dry bunk afterwards and no razzing from your shipmates.View Thread
Having condoms around is great and they can be bought in bulk for substantial savings. I like to have cheap-o's around for what I call a 'wrap and slap' -- rolling a condom on lets you masturbate anywhere without having to worry about any clean-up! That can be a plus sometimes.
If I had boys I'd be sure that there were always condoms in the house -- I know we'd all like grandchildren someday, but not as a surprise.View Thread
That's good to hear and removes any confusion. I have silver hair but no sons, you have an opportunity that I don't. But I share with you your youthful outlook on life, only way to go!
Usually in the discussions here we hear about sons and their relationships with their fathers, often wishing they were closer and more open with sexual topics. Since you're in the positions where you have sons you can be open with, it would be both interesting and refreshing to hear how your handling the opportunity do do things right.
How old are your sons, and do you have more than two? In addition to being nude in front of each other do you do any nude recreation such as swimming nude, or fishing or doing some hiking? And how do you handle erections when they come up -- they're certainly part of life.
I've often wondered how I would 'do things right' if I had the opportunity and it would be good to hear from someone who is having that chance.View Thread
Yup, but it's in the steam room, not the sauna. And you have to know the place, have a feel for the number of guys in the locker room and the likelihood of a third person coming in -- who in fact might want to join you.
The steam room offers some decreased visibilty and gives you the opportunity to cover up quickly or cross your legs should you feel a need to do so.
And the other guy? Someone I don't know, just the both of us were through our work-outs, arrived at the steam room at the same time and we were so relaxed that we wound up getting erections. And felt with comfortable our nude bodies and seeing each other and realized that jerking off together was what the moment called for. As I said, you have a pleasant moment of celebrating your shared masculinity when that happens. But yes, you do have to be careful -- guess it comes down first to knowing and being comfortable with yourself and the various parts which make you who you are; and then being comfortable and familiar with the gym facility. Then it isn't too hard to "read" another guy through the steam -- just start to fondle your cock and see how the other guy responds. If it does turn out that you're both on the same wave length, there you are!View Thread
Hey, we seem to be having quite a conversation going here, that's good. And if you read other posts I've made here along with those in Man to Man Topics and in Male Sexual Issues, you'll probably find a good deal I've had to say about all of the questions you've just asked. But I'll give a recap here:
1) Of course I've thought about a male sexually. Lots of them! And it doesn't bother me that I do. I've come to accept and embrace my "inner gay guy" even though that's only a very small part of who I am. It's a part of many of us if we will only realize it make it our own.
2) Your dream would suggest to me that you are open and questioning about sexual possibilities. That's an ongoing process -- I hope mine never ends. Have you been to a nudist swimming area, or is that something you'd like to do? Having a relationship with a couple? Things to turn over in your mind.
3) I've had a lot of fantasies -- I think you've already read and commented about the one I had in my childhood where I was part of a team of nude studs responsible for fathering the clan's children (wherever did that come from, I wonder)! And others have come and gone over the years. But here I usually only write about things that have happened or thoughts I've had and not things I only imagine.
4) My interactions with other mature nude men at the gym are limited to after workout relaxation in the steamroom. Sometimes I'll be with another guy who is also flushed with testosterone and pumped from a hard workout and we both find that we have obvious erections. We find ourselves on the same wavelength and do the sensible thing: we quietly stroke them out, having brought in small towels to clean ourselves up with afterwards. We don't touch each other or actually talk about it, just enjoy a special closeness of understanding the wonderful and intense feelings which each other is having. And its fun to be open enough to see and be seen, intense facial grimaces and slight moans made as we find the towels are suddenly necessary. Sort of a shared vulnerability which makes for a warm brotherly moment. Doesn't happen very often and doesn't go anywhere after that, but it's truly enjoyble when it happens.
If you have some more questions I would be happy to respond. I can be both randy and wordy, as I think you have already found out!View Thread
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