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The first time was when I was a young teen-ager, maybe 14 or 15. I was having a complete physical done by a doctor who was not my usual MD. He and I were alone in the examining room and I was surprised when he had me take off all my clothes and had me lie down on my back completely nude on his examining table. I relaxed and let him go about his work of poking and pressing at me, starting at the top of my chest and going back and forth, each time a little lower down. By the time he started going back and forth below my belly button I started to feel stirrings in my penis. I wasn't embarassed but I was surprised and continued to be relaxed and to lie still. As he went further and further down I became harder and harder and finally I could feel my penis bobbing up and down with each heartbeat, that's how aroused I was! The whole thing was new but I didn't have any preparation or experience to compare it with so just accepted the goings on from an authority figure. Just when I thought I couldn't take any more of his poking without shooting a load he had me roll over onto my stomach while he did the same poking to my back. Eventually my hard-on subsided and it was gone by the time he was through although the tingling in my penis remained until I was able to get home, go to the bathroom and masturbate.
When he was through he left me to get dressed while he talked with my parents. Later that day my father told me while beaming with pride that the doctor had told him that I had developed into "a fine young man." So, I thought, the doctor had told him all about my bobbing erection and possibly it was part of a physical development test -- to this day I'm still not sure why it was done. But I do remember that I enjoyed the experience, why wouldn't I?
The second time I can say I wished I had ejaculated in the doctor's office was about 30 years later when I was having a digital rectal exam from my regular doc. His method was a little different in that he would lubricate his gloved finger and hold it still while he had you back your butt onto it, leaving the patient more in control. That one time I slid my rectum over his finger which easily slipped far inside. As he started to feel my prostate I was filled with an incredible amount of desire to ejaculate. "I want to masturbate, and I want to masturbate now!" I remember thinking to myself. Again the driving need didn't go away with the end of the exam but this time I was older and didn't feel I needed to wait until I got home. On the way out I stopped in the men's room and left my load of semen there. Felt much better after that.
Maybe the third time will be the charm - maybe my time to shoot a load in the doctor's office is down the road, something to look forward to. At least should it happen I'll know that it's not really something unusual. That's how we guys are made and those things happen sometimes.View Thread

Now I don't know if kegels necessarily make you shoot further -- and why would you want to? But I do know that in the process of training myself to become multi-orgasmic I did do some kegels as part of the 'training'. And after I while when I'd lie on my back for a nice long masturbation session when I finally came sometimes I would shoot a load of semen which would land up on my face. Not every time, my chest and stomach area was the usual target, but face shots did happen now and then. They can be a pleasant surprise but don't really add too much to the experience. A good explosion is great, no matter how far it goes.
Keep practicing, learn more about your body and your maleness. And enjoy!View Thread


Have you talked with her to see if there's some way that the two of you could work together to bring you some sexual satisfaction without your having to be pumping into her for hours on end? Maybe some sort of play, or her helping you masturbate? Surely there should be some playful and loving way for you to express your effection towards each other and your being able to get the release which you need.
Good luck! It may take some work to get somewhere with all of this but it certainly would be worth it if you were to come up with something.View Thread


The bit about cleansing the tubing of urinary residue is a good point and is interesting. There's a lot about ourselves which many of us aren't fully aware of -- including me. Thanks for the input, Ontbear.View Thread

That's the kind of sadness and disappointment I would think a Creator would feel if he had crafted someone a penis and scrotum and filled it with wonderful feelings and the guy He gave it to didn't get as much enjoyment out of it as possible!
As for my part I would say get hard, rub thankfully and ejaculate with praise and thanksgiving for such a truly magnificent gift which will be with you all of your life. There to give you children, to give you an identity, to reassure you and comfort you when you are alone. Find out how many responsible ways you can use it with delight -- that's how I see it. Others, of course, may see things differently.View Thread

If you need more reassurance you might talk with your doctor sometime when you are in to see him about something. Since size is an issue for all of us, especially in our teen years as we are growing, your doctor will be fully understanding of your situation. And will be able to give you professional advice about your particular penis.
Perhaps the other guys on the board may have some suggestions. But I think that most of us would say not to worry, be responsible but enjoy!View Thread
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