Have you ever given someone a really special gift which meant a lot to you and you really wanted them to enjoy it and you think it was truly wonderful, among the best things ever? And the person you gave the gift to smiled and said thank-you -- but you can see that it's still in it's package, they've never used it! Don't you feel sad and disappointed?
That's the kind of sadness and disappointment I would think a Creator would feel if he had crafted someone a penis and scrotum and filled it with wonderful feelings and the guy He gave it to didn't get as much enjoyment out of it as possible!
As for my part I would say get hard, rub thankfully and ejaculate with praise and thanksgiving for such a truly magnificent gift which will be with you all of your life. There to give you children, to give you an identity, to reassure you and comfort you when you are alone. Find out how many responsible ways you can use it with delight -- that's how I see it. Others, of course, may see things differently.View Thread
We all wonder about that -- and most of us would like to be bigger. But I wouldn't give the your size issue too much concern. First, you're 16 and may not be finished growing yet. And second, whatever size you are you will be able to make both you and your partner happy when the time is right.
If you need more reassurance you might talk with your doctor sometime when you are in to see him about something. Since size is an issue for all of us, especially in our teen years as we are growing, your doctor will be fully understanding of your situation. And will be able to give you professional advice about your particular penis.
Perhaps the other guys on the board may have some suggestions. But I think that most of us would say not to worry, be responsible but enjoy!View Thread
I'm not really sure what you man by 'delayed ejaculation' and why it would be a problem. Usually guys are looking for ways to make their thrusting sessions last longer so having a delayed ejac should be a good thing.
There are always new ways to masturbate and it's good to keep changing around from one to another to keep it interesting -- and to keep you excited!
A concern about 'rough masturbation' -- again, not quite sure what you mean. But be careful, your penis can be injured by handling it too roughly.
Please post some more details so the guys on this board can have a better idea of what suggestions to offer. Good luck!View Thread
I can't think of anyone to feel more comfortable with when being naked. While it may be too bad that you weren't used to it growing up it's great that you have a chance now to make up for some lost time!
There's probably very little that you feel or experience that your dad hasn't been through already. And I do believe that the shared nudity experience is something which is based upon and builds trust -- you need no protection of any kind from each other.
So relax, give it a try and see how natural it can feel. Good luck!View Thread
Not being a healthcare professional and not knowing very much about your situation I can't say much in the way of help or suggestions. However, the kegel exercises which you have mentioned in the title of your piece are used to extend the amount of time a guy is sexually aroused before he ejaculates.
So using the kegel exercise and practicing it over time might help. But it would probably be best to see a professional/doctor to get advice which would be best-suited for your condition.
Hey, Cagey, I wasn't sure how easily the group members would understand the idea of "confusing" the penis -- glad you've had the confusion experience, too. Our bodies are amazing things and as I've been shining a flashlight into all the corners of my sexuality the better to understand and appreciate it, such things as that are encountered.
And you're also proving that even the oddest or most offbeat of sexual feelings or expressions is something which someone else has run into. Thanks for posting! Would enjoy hearing more of your experiences in the days ahead.View Thread
Another instance of a part of guys' education requiring them to be nude in public for a certain period of time:
In ancient Greece there was a sort of review board before which all teen-age schoolboys had to pass once a week for inspection. Basically this review was to keep an eye on the boys and stop any developing obesity in its tracks. Without clothes the extra pounds are impossible to hide. With the current health crisis in overweight, especially among young people, here's an idea which it might be time to recycle. It's so much easier to get extra pounds off where there's only a few of them.
Yes, I know that like a lot of other good ideas this one won't get picked up -- but think about it, it's not a half-bad one.View Thread