Sexual issues Member To Member
Talk about sexual issues, like the old board
See All
Preferences
My Communities
My Discussions
My Email Digests

I can understand the need for a hookup. I can understand love at first site. But going to bed with everyone you meet makes no sense to me.
A date can be the attempt to find someone for sex, in which case doing it on the first date is the objective. But dating to find someone for a long term relationship or marriage, then having sex on the first date seems less logical. Not to say some successful marriages have not happened after such casual sexual starts.
I would object to the thinking of any man who thinks any woman he takes to dinner should sleep with him. Or any woman the has sex with every man she meets. And I am a person that can separate sex as an activity and love making.View Thread

I find most men are horny in winter, spring, summer and fall. They are horny when getting a great deal of sex and horny when they don't get any sex.
I think women are trying to catch up and younger women feel more free to be as horny as men. I doubt we will ever catch up though.
I would think the less restrictive clothing of summer and women wearing less would make men hornier during summer if ever.
Your wife should feel fortunate that you have such a strong libido and you are available to please her with a foot massage or more any time. But be careful many women enjoy a foot massage more than sex.View Thread

But talking with young people today and reading surveys and sex studies, etc. it seems like opinions and actions of people have changed again.
It started to come to light when Bill Clinton's activities told us oral sex was not really sex.
Then Madonna kissing Britney told us sex between women was acceptable and almost the norm even by straight women.
Head Coach of the NY Jets admits he has a foot fetish.
Swapping is in a more quiet place then the days of Bill , Ted, Carol and Alice but those that do it seem to be comfortable telling others about it and not just in private discussions like this.
I would guess most under 30 couples feel very comfortable with the new norm but I expect most that are older did not grow up with sex being so open and the variations being so acceptable may not be as comfortable accepting it.
I would like to hear from people how they feel about the changing values and activities. Are you doing it, comfortable with it, judgmental about others that do it, want to pass laws that stop it, think they are all going to hell? Would you be flattered, shocked or insulted if you(or you and your spouse) were invited to join another person(couple) for sexual activities like these?View Thread
Take the Poll
Poll Results
-
Less open to sexual variations6% (1)
-
More open to sexual variations24% (4)
-
Would never admit to half of what they do in private29% (5)
-
People are the same we just read about it more on the internet29% (5)
-
Wish I(my spouse) had the opportunity to be more experimental12% (2)

A topic not widely discussed in all the talk of 10 or 12 inch men is that women come in different sizes too and are not always as comfortable with a larger tool. Often they are built to engulf a much more average 5-7 inch driver making it far more enjoyable. Maybe some women have not stayed very tight over the years and larger maybe better for them. More average has advantages for other penetrations too.View Thread
See Related Sex & Relationships Communities
Women's Health Newsletter
Find out what women really need.
Other Member Communities
- Dieting Club: 10 - 25 Lbs Member Community Share Your Tips and Support!
- Caregiving Member Community The Support and Understanding You Need!
- Parenting Friends Talking Member Community Get Support from Members Like You!
-
More Related Communities
The opinions expressed in WebMD User-generated content areas like communities, reviews, ratings, or blogs are solely those of the User, who may or may not have medical or scientific training. These opinions do not represent the opinions of WebMD. User-generated content areas are not reviewed by a WebMD physician or any member of the WebMD editorial staff for accuracy, balance, objectivity, or any other reason except for compliance with our Terms and Conditions. Some of these opinions may contain information about treatments or uses of drug products that have not been approved by the U.S. Food and Drug Administration. WebMD does not endorse any specific product, service, or treatment.
Do not consider WebMD User-generated content as medical advice. Never delay or disregard seeking professional medical advice from your doctor or other qualified healthcare provider because of something you have read on WebMD. You should always speak with your doctor before you start, stop, or change any prescribed part of your care plan or treatment. WebMD understands that reading individual, real-life experiences can be a helpful resource, but it is never a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment from a qualified health care provider. If you think you may have a medical emergency, call your doctor or dial 911 immediately.
Health Solutions From Our Sponsors
©2005-2013 WebMD, LLC. All rights reserved.
WebMD does not provide medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. See additional information.
