I thing the same way about men or women who ALWAYS jump into bed on the first date. Either they are extremely horny or are extremely desperate.
I can understand the need for a hookup. I can understand love at first site. But going to bed with everyone you meet makes no sense to me.
A date can be the attempt to find someone for sex, in which case doing it on the first date is the objective. But dating to find someone for a long term relationship or marriage, then having sex on the first date seems less logical. Not to say some successful marriages have not happened after such casual sexual starts.
I would object to the thinking of any man who thinks any woman he takes to dinner should sleep with him. Or any woman the has sex with every man she meets. And I am a person that can separate sex as an activity and love making.View Thread
Sex is a very good form of exercise if you are doing it right.
I find most men are horny in winter, spring, summer and fall. They are horny when getting a great deal of sex and horny when they don't get any sex.
I think women are trying to catch up and younger women feel more free to be as horny as men. I doubt we will ever catch up though.
I would think the less restrictive clothing of summer and women wearing less would make men hornier during summer if ever.
Your wife should feel fortunate that you have such a strong libido and you are available to please her with a foot massage or more any time. But be careful many women enjoy a foot massage more than sex.View Thread
Much is discussed about the sexual revolution caused by the pill and free love of the 60s and 70s and the death of it and return to a more monogamous time caused by AIDS.
But talking with young people today and reading surveys and sex studies, etc. it seems like opinions and actions of people have changed again.
It started to come to light when Bill Clinton's activities told us oral sex was not really sex.
Then Madonna kissing Britney told us sex between women was acceptable and almost the norm even by straight women.
Head Coach of the NY Jets admits he has a foot fetish.
Swapping is in a more quiet place then the days of Bill , Ted, Carol and Alice but those that do it seem to be comfortable telling others about it and not just in private discussions like this.
I would guess most under 30 couples feel very comfortable with the new norm but I expect most that are older did not grow up with sex being so open and the variations being so acceptable may not be as comfortable accepting it.
I would like to hear from people how they feel about the changing values and activities. Are you doing it, comfortable with it, judgmental about others that do it, want to pass laws that stop it, think they are all going to hell? Would you be flattered, shocked or insulted if you(or you and your spouse) were invited to join another person(couple) for sexual activities like these?View Thread
Having sex with a very big man, much bigger than my husband was a unique, interesting and very pleasurable experience in some ways. It was far from my best sex. Most women do not even orgasm regularly doing intercourse regardless of how large the man's penis is. Unless of course the right other things are being done, or have been done to her to cum. Most orgasms happen during manual or oral stimulation anyway. Looking at a large member or holding it maybe more fun than having it rip you open. And as another topic here discussed trying to perform oral on it can be a problem and not fun.
A topic not widely discussed in all the talk of 10 or 12 inch men is that women come in different sizes too and are not always as comfortable with a larger tool. Often they are built to engulf a much more average 5-7 inch driver making it far more enjoyable. Maybe some women have not stayed very tight over the years and larger maybe better for them. More average has advantages for other penetrations too.View Thread