When I first starting getting massages I found my penis would get aroused and even hard. But the man who did the massages told me that it was a common and not to be concerned about it. One of the main purposes of the message is to work tension out of the body. As this tension is worked out your body has that feel good feeling all over. So if your penis stays hard and even ejaculates during the message, don't feel about it. It's just apart of that feel good tension releasing process. And stop being embarrassed, your massage therapist has most likely seen that happen many times and if it bothered him he would not keep on in that profession. I think you are worrying too much. The massage therapist knows what he is doing. In massaging your upper legs his hands may rub or bump against your testicles or penis, stop worrying about it. You are supposed to enjoy the message and be refreshed when it's over. In my opinion you are not cheating. Your whole body is on it's own is just enjoying the great benefit of body massage. Now if you started going out with the massage therapist then I would say you are heading in the direction of cheating.View Thread
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