In my area there are no places available for massage. I wish there were. That being said, some massage parlors provide "happy endings" to the massage. I know that is the route I would go. Has the girl giving the massage ever noticed your erection?If not you might gracefully let her see it and see how she reacts. Without more info on the type of establishement you're patronizing I really don't know what else to tell you.
If none of the above works and you asked about masturbating it might get you thrown out. So proceed with care on this one. I can say I understand where you're coming from here. I once got a massage from a girlfriend I had just met and at that time I wanted to pull my penis out so bad it hurt but I didn't cause I didn't want to blow it. BTW later on I did get to pull it out and now you know there was a happy ending at least that time. LOLView Thread
No masturbating does not mean a lose of virginity.
I tried to envision rubbing my penis against the bed sheets etc. and my first thought was getting blistered before I got to the pleasure part. To me not the best way.
Society has placed lots of taboos on masturbation for some reason. That aside I suggest taking your penis and playing with it gently and when aroused stroke it slowly and gently. Remember the longer it takes to ejaculate the better and more intense your orgasm.
Masturbating is a normal and healthy thing for guys to do. It feels great and empties our prostate at the same time a win win. So get to stroking and enjoy it's really OK !View Thread
Hairy D I'm with you on almost everything except for one thing. There seems to be a bit of anti-masturbation bias lurking in your comments.
Marriage in the old days was as you described it. Now everyone can choose and more and more are choosing not to choose marriage. I'm among that particular demographic in the Boomer crowd whose marriage went sour and have not been fortunate enough to find a new mate. I'm not the least bit attrackted to the beefy look so common among boomers ! My faith teaches against masturbation and the like. I personally choose to masturbate because I don't know that sanity would be possible without it and I like the way it feels I always have (age 12) . People can't get married just because church and society think you should I like to think it takes Love and that is one thing I do not have. Is it lonely like that? Yes, but I haven't any choice in the matter.
Secondly the prostate gland benifits from regular ejaculation which is either done by masturbation or through sex.
I'd like to hear what your comments are regarding my own situation in light of the progression of this discussion so far.View Thread
Very well said Guthrie ! My penis feels wonderful to me I've never seen it uncut so I like the way it looks. If you've seen any of my other posts , everyone knows how much I enjoy masturbating, no problem there. The head of my penis is perfectly sensitive. In short my penis has provided me many years of wonderful pleasure in a variety of ways.
As Guthrie said , if you're an adult stay the way you are it's working isn't it? No need to change it at all.
Tido I firmly believe masturbation is OK for you and anyone else. I can tell you that I have been masturbating since age twelve and I enjoy it.
I also believe it's healthy for a man to masturbate because it empty's the prostate. If you feel the need to masturbate then by all means you should. Do not be ashamed to masturbate it's normal for Guys and Girls alike.
Let me asure you many men have taken matters into their own hands and loved every minute of it.
Obviously from the frame of your question you may feel there is a religious reson for not doing so and those are questions only you can sort out. Speaking for myself and all the men on here we encourage you to do so if you wish.View Thread
I'm cut (at birth) but if I were not I would leave it alone. I like my penis as it is and I believe it's very sensitive as well. One thing is for sure don't remove a foreskin just to please someone else.View Thread
Well what you were really asking was for her to masturbate in front of you. She obviously enjoyed hence the cumming. Sounds like after she cooled off and thought about it she was a little afraid that you saw a part of her sexuality you haven't seen. That would have been exciting to me too !
You might try talking to her about it and you might try a performance of your own. Intercourse is great but all kinds of play is too. Masturbating in front of each other is a real turn on to me. I think it's really hot ! Sounds like you've been thinking on this but broach the subject tenderly. In my view it would be great for both of you to add this to your bedroom.
It's really hot to masturbate together so that each has a good view of the other oh man ! If those reading this have never tried that well you need to.
If you feel like masturbating and your wife / partner doesn't why should you have to leave the room. They should know that part of your sexuality too. So just let go of your inhibitions and reveal it to them. It will make you both better hotter lovers because they get to see what you do with your hands and it will help them get in tune with you.View Thread
I think when you are married you both should masturbate. It's a good thing if it's a shared experience. Masturbation is a healthy part of life. There should never be an 'OMG' moment if you're found jacking off.
Believe me folks that happens. Some people seem to have hang-ups about masturbation even in these more liberated times.View Thread