I am 60 and my spouse is unable to have/enjoy sex. I discovered this practice several years ago and an online community of other dedicated edgers (bateworld). This has helped me cope with my situation. Honestly, edging and gooning is a bliss state that I wish I had discovered long before this. Getting there is truly more than half the fun! I am able to enjoy several hours of this every week. On weekends, I am usually able to get in sessions of several hours before the wife gets up or while she is out shopping. A man needs to know how to handle himself !View Thread
I belong to only one online 'community' for sexual interests. It's an 'edging' /masturbation site that mostly facilitates skyping sessions. That's not really my thing but there are many other things on the site such as pics and vids and a messaging service and vid chat room. I have pics and a bad vid posted but no face. I can't see how showing my facet would help me since I am married with grown children-more downside than up, I would think..View Thread
I am nearing retirement age and my wife is unable to enjoy sex. Naturally, I have coped with edging (I am at a 'Masters' level!) and porn and it works for me. I would love to find a retired man/couple who would host an edging/porn session a few times a month but haven't found that yet. I envy your situation. It wouldn't work for me because I really don't think I could enjoy jo with anyone I knew beforehand (so to speak). I can 'compartmentalize' and would hope my eventual jo bud(s) become friends but only afterward, not before. I would prefer to jo with someone that I'd met only for that purpose. Weird, but that's my fantasy.View Thread
I'm married over 30 years and two adult kids. I love penises. Here's a difference that may indicate if you're more into men than women, not that I'd worry about it. For me, my attraction is purely physical. I love watching a man enjoy his penis and the sight of penises in general. I don't really enjoy much else about men's bodies except the sight of a fit, muscular man.I would not want to have a jo session with anyone I really knew beforehand, although my fantasy is to find someone to do this with a few times a month. I like everything about a woman's body and enjoy the emotional and intellectual closeness with women. So, women are the whole package, men pretty much just the package.View Thread
I have driven with my hard 'manhood' out. My favorite experience was edging in a downtown office that I was asked to 'mind' a few hours a day while the single staffer took vacation. No one ever visited the office so I could lock the door, strip and edge for an hour or two. I'd think about the men and women only a few feet away in the adjacent offices and it was a huge turn on. I have also edged outdoors, on a balcony, and in hotel rooms. I hope someone starts a thread on edging!View Thread
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