Does anyone know why when I sleep with a new girl for the first time I always, and I mean always have ED issues but after I have slept with them a few times I never have ED issues again.
Every girlfriend I have ever had the very first time we try having sex I have major ED issues. I will be erect while we are making out and then as soon as we take the clothes off to get to it, I lose my erection. This has happened with every single girlfriend I have ever had.
But after we manage to have sex a few times together I never have this problem ever again, I can maintain an erection no problem. It is almost like a psychological thing with every new girl.
Does anyone have any experience with this? I also seem to have a physical problem though. If I go from laying down to standing up, or vice versa, my erection seems to go away. I was making out laying down on the couch the other day with my girlfriend for an hour straight and I had an erection the entire time. As soon as we stood up to move to the bedroom, my erection went away almost immediately, like within 10 seconds.
Yes I suppose I do have performance anxiety. Which makes sense considering after I get comfortable with the girl I never have an erection problem again. But why would I have a performance anxiety in the first place? Obviously not every guy has this problem. Most probably don't. There are plenty of guys that can sleep with a new girl every week with no problems, so what are the most common causes of performance anxiety for guys?View Thread
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