I don't think my circumcision was anything "religious". My parents are plain Christian, nothing spectacular, so I think it was just done.
My stepdaughter's boyfriend and father of their son, even though American, is not cut. Yet, when it came time to do or don't their son, they had him cut.
Personally speaking, my wife --when we were dating-- prior to the first time she saw mine, she was hoping I was cut. She doesn't "care for" the look of the uncut, so that might have been a deal breaker had I not been cut.
Myself, I don't think there's a "majority"/"minority" issue. You're either cut or you aren't. Your significant other either accepts it/adjusts to it or not. It's along the lines of the penis size debate, why have one? You have what you have, enjoy it!
My wife has become multi-orgasmic. Usually she has at least two: one vaginal; one clitoral. Recently, she had three. My enjoyment in all of it was being the man she had them with, and her encouraging me to thrust harder/deeper. No worries here! hahahahahahaView Thread
Wife was watching Oprah one day --before syndication-- and had Dr. Oz on. He said: "For every 15 pounds a man loses, he can gain an inch, due to the loss of the fat pad around the base of his penis."
I'm not disputing the others by saying 15 lbs., but I was standing profile to my wife --when I still weighed 150-ish-- and asked her: "Where can I lose 15 lbs?" I was laughing, she was not: "You don't need to lose any weight. You're skinny enough already!"
Now, at 45, I'm around 175 and not happy with it. I did do the inches tall thing and my waist size/pants-size is exact. I wear a 34 waist now, up from a 30 in my 20's; 31 in my 30's; and pushed up to a 34 in my 40's. AAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHH! hahahahahahahahahaView Thread
Far as I'm concerned, that's the issue right there: you're worrying about it. I've been there a few times. I either couldn't get stiff or would get too excited and go off like an adolescent having his first time.
Just relax. If she doesn't know already, then tell her. My stress level --usually work-related-- was my culprit. After a while of not having any sex, and us just cuddling, my stress level came down and other things came up. ; )
And, sometimes, during our cuddling, without me asking, she'd reach down and start to play with/massage everything. If it happened, great! If not, we'd wait a bit longer.
I'm 45 now, and my drive may be dipping a bit, but my want hasn't. I want sex at least once everyday, even though it doesn't happen.
I appreciate your vote of confidence for not "untucking" my shirt when I'm sporting a chubby, or an erection straining against my jeans. However, there are enough men out there who feel it necessary to "show their package" by moose-knuckling,or, wanting to make their bulge look more impressive. Nah. I don't want to do that. If my chubby gets noticed, oh well. I'll leave flaunting to the privacy of my home... and my wife! hahahahahahahaha
Our ten year wedding anniversary this weekend --1/15-- I plan on getting some screwing done, if I can last beyond getting my head in. May not even last passed her playing with/stroking it. Been a little over a week without, and I'm craving.
I told my wife several years ago, "If our roles were reversed, if you were me, and I you, I would be jumping your bones every chance I got." She said, "You don't know that. What if, as me being a man, I didn't want sex?" I said, "I'd find ways to change your mind." hahahaha
But seriously. No, I don't want to be a woman, never have. But, had I been born female, here's what I'd do for the man in my life. If I had a boyfriend or husband, and if he kept himself in shape --as I try to do, at 45-- and if he wanted sex frequently, I would do everything I could to keep him satisfied.
For instance. If he were a nude sleeper, and I woke up first, whether he was sporting morning wood or not, I would definitely reach over, if I wasn't snuggled to him already, and explore "him". I don't think there are too many men who would wake up in a foul mood, having that kind of exploring going on.
Whether he's limp, has a chubby, or a full-erection, I wouldn't hesitate to give him whatever he wanted. Even if I wasn't in the mood to have sex, or, even he just wanted masturbation, it would be my hand satisfying him, not his own.
Anyway, that's what I would do if I were a female. And yes, I wish my wife would feel that way toward me. She knows my sex-drive, and yet, I have to tell her: please, more displays of affection, even if it means I get so aroused I have to untuck my shirt! hahahahahaha
I'll understand if no one else feels comfortable replying.View Thread
I also eat alot of peanuts. I'm hypoglycemic --need to keep my blood-sugar up-- and they are a great quick protein snack for bringing up sugar, if need be. But also read in Men's Health mag in my 30's, that peanuts, not only being good for you, are also testosterone boosters. When I told my wife, she said, "You don't need your testosterone boosted anymore than it already is!" hahahahahahhahahaa
And, I have to disagree with DeadMan, sex is great exercise! Depending on the position(s) it's being done in, a man works alot of muscles and gets his heart racing. I'm well out of breath, in a good way, afterward. Then I usually bound out of bed --if that's where we are-- get dressed and go eat. Full of energy!View Thread
It's great when a morning starts out with good sex. It surely beats masturbating, which, I'm not opposed to. My wife climbed into bed, and we're laying there snuggling, I'm lightly stroking her inner thigh. She said, "I like that. It feels good. Making me horney too." She asked if I was horney? I said, "Not overly. But, I won't pass a chance to drain 'em either."
As soon as she said "horney", I was stiff and lubricating. Soon thereafter, we had great sex, which ended with her having three orgasms: one vaginal; another with her pushing my pelvic bone harder against hers; the last, rubbing my pelvic bone against hers again.
We were laughing about her comment: "What the H? That never happens." I said, "I wish I could have that many. I'd settle for the two you usually have." Of course, that would push my libido into over-drive more than it already is, striving to have multiples everytime.
Oh well, I'm not complaining. I never complain when I start my day with good morning-sex. Cheers to more mornings like this one! hahahahahahahahaView Thread
I really don't think I'm in that bad of shape. A little bit of the flabby belly, otherwise, in good health. Weighed myself recently and am at 170, which is only the second time in my life I've been that "heavy". I do alot of standing/walking at work, lifting at work, and, when I'm not too tired after work, I work in a good 1-1/2 - 2 mile walk around town. During summer/better weather, I ride my bicycle to work.
I've read in several magazines where men say absolutely no teeth. I'm not numbered among them. The few times my wife does that for me, she intentionally uses hers, non-aggressively, because she knows what I enjoy. Scraping them, lightly up and down, nipping on the head and tip, mmmm! When she's had her fingernails done in the past, she learned, very quickly, that I love for her to scrape them along me too.
Some men need to stop being such sissies when it comes to the pleasure of their penis. Not all sharp edges are out to remove it from their body. When she's massaging "the boys", I invite her to do so more aggressively. I'll let her know if/when it hurts/it's too much. And, during hndjbs, I ask her to squeeze it tight. A solid erection can take alot more "abuse" than some think.
If a man can tolerate getting his genitalia tattooed, then he surely can tolerate teeth or a gorilla-grip from the woman in his life.
I'm not complaining about having a strong libido, still, at 45, but wonder why it seems so much stronger during Fall and Winter? I live in the northern tier of states, and, for whatever reason, when Fall/Winter comes in, I'm hornier than ever. During summer, I'm always naked in the house, and am usually commando in shorts when I go outside. And am just as horney then too.
Wife and I aren't privileged to have a fireplace or a "bare"-skin rug, but maybe it's my fantasy of she and I having sex in front of a burning fireplace on a bare-skin rug that triggers these upswings in my libido.
And too, it could be my fantasy of me coming in from shoveling snow/outdoor work, and she strips me of my clothes for some good sex. But then, that seldom happens when I'm commando in shorts during summer, either. hahahahahahaha
I massaged her feet yesterday, then left her a note saying: I'm next in line for a massage, but it won't be my feet getting the massage. An area a few feet above them, that will give more satisfaction, will be getting the massage. Hasn't happened yet...
Anybody else have certain times of year when their libido skyrockets?View Thread
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