If you are not sure if you have given your wife and orgasm then you need to sit down and talk to her and Not in the bedroom. Talk to her and ask her if she has had an orgasm. You need to know so that if she has not had an orgasm while having sex with you then the two of you need to sit down and figur out what can be done to get her to vaginal orgasm. Have you ever stimulated her Clitoris? If not then ask her if she would like you to stimulate her clitoris and if she says yes then when you do it ask her what she likes and what will give her an orgasm from clitoral stimulation.At least she is getting some,release. BIf she is not getting an orgasm from vaginal intercourse then you need to work on this as well. Do not hesitate to get a good sex manual. If that does not help then take the time to seek help from a sex therapist to get your love life on track. The time you spend now will pay dividents in the long run. God Bless you two.View Thread
If it is a lube issue then I would recommend "Replens" It can be purchased over the counter and it is like a suppository that your wife puts in her vagina.before sex. I find it works well and resembles natural lube that the vagina would normally produce. Give that a try and see if it works for her.View Thread
If it is not a heart problem then I think you need to have a sit down and talk to him as to what has changed in the last little while that he really does not want to have sex? Talk to him but not in the bedroom. This is better in some other room than the bedroom. He seems young to have heart problems but one can have heart problems at any age.
Do let us know how things go once he has been to the Doc.View Thread
The heart concern should be aken up with his med provider to chech if there is anything to be concernd about.
How old is he? Is he in good phyisical condition?
When you say it is pretty quick does that mean he cims shortly after penatration? If so he most likely is having pre-
mature ejaculation. There are ways to resolve PE as it is known. Most good sex guides cover this issue.
while he is seeing his Med Provider about his heart he can also ask about ways and things to do so that he does not have PE. If he masturbates a lot he should avoid this till he has his PE under control.
When he feels that he is about to cum them get him to stop thrusting till the urge to come subsides. Then once he feels like he can start thrusting again without cuming then proceed till he feels like he is about to cum again and get him to stop. He can do this about 4 times and then let him cum. In time his mind will be trained to not cum so soon. This will take time but for you it will be well worth the time and effort that both of you you put into this type of practice to get him to last longer. The end result that if he last longer you will be sattisfied. .View Thread
If this has gone on for a while then it is time to talk to your provider about this. One other thing that should not be bothering you at this age is low testosterone. But it would not hurt to get your testosterone levels ckecked and at the same time you can have a good talk with your provider about what is causing this.
I also agree that you lay off the the masturbation completely and limit intercourse to perhaps 2-max 3 times per week. If this helps you to get an keep an erection to climax then continue taking is slow tilll you have your confidence back.
Id he is 40 and gets that many erections then tell him to be thankfl especial if he is able to get strong erections during sex. Ther are many men who cannot get or not maintain erections amd suffer from erectile dysfuntion. If you are being satisfied then View Thread
How old is your B-F. It is common to have a lot of erections if you are very young like age 18 to 25. It does snound like a lot of erections but I guess each guy is different. If this is bothering him then please ask him to go and be seen by a provider to assess if this normal?
I am sure that you will get other replies from other guys.View Thread
Replying to the orginal poster. I am cut so do not know what you are going through. I do understand that there is a lot of care needed to keep things clean under the foreskin so I would umderstand if you wanted to get cut.
I think the best thing to do now is to get a medical opinion on what to do. At the same time you can ask the DR how painful it would be and also how long it would take to heal. You can ask the Dr as to the risks involved in being cut at your age.
Keep us informed as to how things go so we can support you in any way possible.View Thread
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