So it appears that your relativly new GF likes giys that are cut. Is she really accepting you for you. There are pros and cons of each. One thing is that if you get cut you can not go back to being uncut. I have heard that those who are cut have greater sensation in the head of the penis. The con is that
I guess does she love you for you just the way you are. What if you get cut and then she leaves you and now you realize that you wish you had not gotten cut?
If she loves you she will love all of you just the way you are.
I would ask her if she has a reason vor wanting you to get cut? Think long and hard before you decide to get cut.
Give us some feedback on what you are thinking so we can give you more info.View Thread
If your guy is straight and and wants hetrosexual relations then he needs to be seen by a Doc to have all of this reviewed like the last poster said. Levitra 20 mg should give him an erection but then I have tried Cialis and it did not work for me. I prefer the Levitra but perhaps it does not work for him. If he tries some othere rectile dusfuction drug and it does not work then it is time to see a sex therapist.
If you love him and want to be with him work on this with him and explain to him that many men go through times like this and you want to help him to get the help he needs.View Thread
If the blood came from your uertha then it is most likely not from your wife. You should go and see a Dco and discuss this and see what it coud be. When you get blood or blood in you urine it is nothing to fool around with. Go and be seen.View Thread
You are right that putting God first is important. If you are attending a church talk to a counselor at that church. If your church is small start attending a church where there is counseling services offered. Then make an appt with a counselor and get the help you need. God Bless you. View Thread
This is something that needs to be dealt with by a Doc and the sooner the better. It could be something natural or it could be something that needs attention now. We cannotdiabnosis on line. Make an appointment to find out for sure what is going on.View Thread
Congrats on the soon to be arrival of a baby for both of you.
I dealt with this issue and I cannot say if what I am about to tell you works but I read in sex manual years ago that if you have PE to resolve this issue it takes time to correct it. The reason why it takes time to correct it is because you have to train your mind and penis sensitivity to be corrected.
For this to work it will take the assistance of your wife and I am sure she will be willing to help if it will mean that your issue will be helped.
What I had read was that to correct this you have your wife pleasure your manually (like masturbation) only she does it and she does it till just before you are about to cum you tell her to STOP. You wait till the urge to cum has subsided and she then continues and again when you feel that you are about to cum you tell her to STOP. Do this approx 3 times and then proceed to intercourse on the 4 go around. You still most likely will have some PE but continue this exercise each time the two of you decide to have intercourse and in time you should be able to retrain you mind and the sensitivity of your penis to work together till you are able to last longer and longer while in your wife. I would give this a try for at least 3 months and see if it extends the amt of time you can be inside your wife before you cum.
Another thing I found that helps is if your wife is on top of you or in some position where you do not have to move. If you do not do any thrusting and just do not move it seems to help extend you time before you cum inside of your wife.
I understand that this may be a bit difficult especially once the baby is born so I would do the exercises and once the baby is born ask her to finish you on the 4th go around. When she is not up to having intercourse with you after the baby is born.
I hope this works for you. If you are getting some results from this let me know and I will check back in about 2-3 weeks to see how things are going. I am sure that it is very frustrating to not be able to last and at the same time your wife is not satisfied either and so you feel terrible as well.
If this works for you then all I ask is that you check this board and also the ED board and the men's board and seek out others like you and help them to find correction for this condition.
God Bless your family and I do pray that this works for you. View Thread
I would still recomend that you post over there as at the present time that is the best place. Perhaps someone over there can help you.
Also go and your regular Doc and tell him about your concerns and perhaps he can refer you to a epecialist that can help you treat your PE issue.
One thing you can do is try masturbating before sex and even maybe twice a day so that when you go to make love to your wife you do not have the failure issue as it will take you longer to ejaculate. The only thing is if you are trying to concieve this is not a good thing to do as it will deplete the amount of sperm.
First of all your need to talk to your wife and tell her that this issue has nothing to do with you loving or not loving her. This sounds like an erectile dysfunction and would urge you to post this same discussion on the erectile dysfunction exchange. Although this condition is more common in older men this can happen to any one even at a young age like yourself. The good news is that it there is treatments for this and I urge you to follow up on this at thatView Thread
Have to agree with other poster this should not be a problem. Can you bend your penis to 45 or 90 degrees without any pain? If so then you should be able to do the cowgirl type of activity without and pain or problem.
Call your Doc and confirm he gave you a "herpes IgG type specific blood test" iand if the Doc did then ask for the numeric test results and they will be something like this. HSV 1 igg is .75 and HSV 2 igg is 3.20 or what eveer he tells you and then post these results on this board so so someone can confirm your status. Even if your Doc says he has pnly HSV 2 numeric test results then take that and post it as it is a starter. The people on this other board will help you from there forward at