I have to remember to look from home at this post. The pics you post won't come up at work.
Hopefully one was of the truck. Sounds nice. I have been debating on getting a classic car or truck. I keep telling myself I should just paint the tractors and make them my hobby, since they also serve a function and the money would be better spent on them. But I love hot rods. And I miss my Harley. So I need a diversion.
I was raised by my mother. She remarried but my stepfather died when I was in the seventh grade. After that it was just her and I. So she raised me to be rather respectful of women. But in High School it drove me crazy to see the prettiest girls with the guys that treated them the worst. I tried to be a nice guy and it just didn't work. They would rather be with the guys that treated them like crap.
Even my current wife was that way with me. When we first started dating I was overly nice to her. Bought her gifts and treated her as nicely as I could. After a month or so she broke up with me. I had just moved in with my father and was living with him for the first time in my life at 26 years old. He was the godfather of the local strip clubs. I started having a blast. It was about then I bought my first Harley and was going out with him and his friends 3 or 4 times a week. I developed a little attitude. Well since I worked with my wife back then she noticed the change in me and asked me out again. The second time I was a little different. A little cocky and didn't seem to care as much. Pretty soon she couldn't get enough of me.
Of course after a while I went back to being the nice guy I have always been, but I think there was something about my cockiness that made her attracted to me.
I have to wonder if maybe there isn't some gene in the make up of a woman that makes them more attracted to the bad boys.
So I you might just need to re-create yourself with some mystery and a little bit of self confidence and cockiness. It probably won't help you in the village of the damned, but the next time you go to a different town, think about how you can change how woman might percieve you. Being the nice guy/good man isn't working. Maybe more of a cowboy/biker look would help.View Thread
Well if you took your truck to a car show somewhere other than the village of the damned there might be.
By bad ass I meant if you are going to restore a truck to bone stock, well that would be appreciated by you and I. But rolling into a car show with a stock 1942 probably wouldn't turn most women's heads.
Pull in with a 427 sticking out of the hood, tubbed and doing a crazy burn out, the loud pipes rattling the windows. Well they might look your direction to see who is causing the ruckus. I can't see the picture here at work I will look at home.
I am just saying that women usually are interested in the bad boys. They reach for things they think they can't have. Get a little attitude, draw some attention to yourself. Create a new persona.View Thread
I understand the getting ready for winter. I have been working around the farm trying to get everything ready. I still have hay equipment to clean off and put away. I was moving wagons today parking them out back. I have to pick up the haybines that have been parked several miles away and put them under the lean to. We have been rather lucky that the weather here remains unseasonably warm. But it will change soon.
I don't know if you have a hobby, but I think you need to get one. I know we talked about you getting another Harley, but you should consider something. Either a bike, classic car, truck etc. Or even a classic tractor. Maybe a horse you could show. Consider a cutter. There are plenty of shows in that area. And consider being bad ass at what ever you do. You need to get some attitude. Whatever you would choose I am sure there would be women around. Just something to think about.View Thread
Do you think you have a lot of personal problems? Obviously you have been alone, you haven't been able to meet anyone in the village of the damned to spend time with.
Well it sounded like you have had good life experiences it has just been a while.
The strippers always used to tell me I didn't smile either. I would smile when they told me that or gave me some other reason to smile. You should have told them you were waiting for them to give you something to smile about. That would have made you seem more sexual also. lol
Well romance and been sexual are two different things. If you are getting the cold shoulder it is hard to be romantic towards someone. And women tend to need a little romance before they start to feel sexual. At least that is what my wife tells me all the time.
Don't tell women the truth. In the new town just tell the women that you wife of 30 years met her demise in a terrible goat herding accident last year. Her dying words were that she wanted you to be happy and find another woman to take her place. And you are exploring that option with the 3 million in insurance money that you recieved. That should make you seem more like someone they might be interested in.
Go on Craigslist and look at the personals in some of the asian countries. And contact them. I am sure they would be willing to come to the US. I know one fellow who's wife he met that way. He is a farmer and has to have a way worse life than you and he is happy and so is she.