I am a father of one and don't have custody but am having really bad feelings about not being allowed to feel like a father as I am told by the mother, my love, that I have no say in any decisions in her life How does one cope with feeling inadequate. I am a student and unemployed but do support them in many ways. I live at parents as well she, the mom. I really get sick in so many ways when I am told I am basically nothing but also told she wants to be with me in future View Thread