I dated my now husband for 18 months and we never used protection (stupid me). I never got pregnant for 18 months!!!! But then In april of 2010 I had an abortion, because I was 21 years old and was getting married that june, I had a pt job and was not ready to be a mom and struglle. It wouldn't be fair to the child. IT WAS THE BIGGEST MISTAKE I HAVE EVER MADE. I regret it every day. After we got married I got a better job and bought a house. So in August (4 months) I came off of the depo i was temp on after the abortion. I have been trying to concieve ever since. watching my temp, ovulation test, cervix checking....I have still yet to concieve. I irregular periods, thats why I track so much and all the time. The past 10 months I have noticed I do not notice a diff in my cervix (You know open or closed, high or low) and I have had a constant ovary pain. Sometimes sharper than other times. Im always fatigued and always feel sick to my stomach. ALWAYS have painful heavy periods. Question1: Could my abortion have caused scarring and problems where I cant get pregnant again? Question2: Could it be ovarian cyst that is causing me to be infertile?? I know I need to go to a dr., but I do not want to get hit with horrible news. That would just brake me even more than what i did. I just want opinions first or maybe self experiences.... Please help me...View Thread