Hi mzmelie, I am new to this site. I am actually looking for a chat buddy as my partner and I have been trying to conceive for 2 years and 4 months. We had an IVF specialist check us both out. My husband's sperm count was a bit slow however everything for me looks a-ok. I am 35 and my husband is 38. How old are you guys? Oh, to say I am finding this devastating is an understatement! My husband also desperitly wants children however he wears it a little better, as males tend to. I on the other hand, spend a lot of time in tears. It would be great to hear from you if you are keen and not to busy.View Thread