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Feeling very depressed. Will I ever conceive? Maybe I am not able to?View Thread
We were unsuccessful, again, this month. All this inconsistent info (ovulation calendars and ovulation tests) are frustrating.
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1st thing is clarification of menstrual cycle length.
This website is counting, as far as i can tell, 1st day of period to 1st day of period for length, but there are other places saying count 1st day of period to last day of next period or end of period to 1st day/last day of next period. I am so confused which one is correct?
Obviously using any of them I am not pregnant yet.
My cycles are regular time again before i started taking birth control that I am very positive of. They are coming about the same length apart and are lasting the same number of days the only exception being this Febuary. It only lasted 3 days which is not normal for me personally though I understand 3-7 is 'normal', but my body since 10years old has never produced a 3 day period EVER. 2-3 days after it stopped I got anxious and took a pregnancy test just to see if maybe it stopped itself for that reason. It was negative

Background on me: i'm 23, fairly healthy only 1 almost-fertility related issue. Endometriosis, ob-gyn said it was very light version no scarring seen and he was extremely positive I should be able to conceive normally.
I moderately exercise getting more in summer because I love warm not cold. I'm not a heavy drinker and have 2-4 cups coffee/latte products every other week. I prefer flavored waters and fruit juices over anything else. I take vitamins (multi,prenatal,zinc,B-complex,ginko bilboa) and ibuprofen for endometriosis/menstrual pain. Cough syrup, Nyquil, benadryl for seasonal allergies only as needed when sick. I eat fairly healthy, I'm not a cook so things come out of plastic packages and cans yes plus I love ramen noodles. I like wheat and whole grain breads, 2% ,vitamin D or whole milk, only recently (13mos) been having lactose free because he prefers it, and I worship fruits, vegtables & yogurt. I love cheese as well.
Love sweets especially milk chocolate but I cut back recently even over halloween. I've eaten a balance of chicken, fish, pork, beef, lamb since living with him (over these 6 months definately). I do eat fast food every now and then, and I eat fat more often than not instead of cutting it off my meat because I have high energy demands that carbs/sugars can't satisfy alone. I am within the proper weight range for my height.
I have some stress, but it's conditional not an every day all day thing and for most of the past 6mos the stress was very minimal. I calm down immediately listening to music and playing with my dog. I sleep 4-6 hours night with a nap in-between this is my norm. I can not sleep 8 hours in a night unless under sedation/sleeping pills since I feel rested with my 4-6 I do not see them as necessary.
That sound like everything that could affect fertility? I see myself as normal... guess the birthcontrol pill is to blame for such rotten luck? But then it amazes me when I hear about women who've gotten pregnant, sometimes multiple times, on different types of hormonal birth control! That's so unfair I haven't even been taking them long and consistently until we discovered the endometriosis in 2011. They were prescribed only to help control the pain & it worked.View Thread
I am Charlotte. I had a miscarriage in August, and have been trying since September. I know that is barely 6 months, BUT I feel that the failed pregnancy added time on to it and made the struggle so much more difficult. I have read so many websites, books, tips and used so many predictors I am ready to explode. It being so long with no luck has made me worry my we may be infertile. I also honestly believed I was pregnant for 2 months, and I missed my period completely. I am late on my period once again, but again home pregnancy tests say I am not pregnant. It is getting very frustrating, and my husband is in the Military so our primary care physician is a Nurse practitioner, who seems to not know what he is talking about. I want to see a Fertility specialist, but I have been told to "Keep trying, and not stress" which seems impossible, but I am making an honest effort. I have been told to wait to see a specialist because I am 20 and my husband is 21. I have fairly regular periods (When I am not stressing myself out) and we have already conceived one child. I have changed my diet, began a light exercise regimen, lost a few pounds so far and do not drink or smoke. I don't know what else I can do.View Thread
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October 30, 2012
November 26, 2012 : 27 days cycle
December 22, 2012 : 26 days cycle
January 15, 2013 : 24 days cycle
February 9, 2013 : 25 day cycle
Being frustrated by this irregular cycle, in after January period I bought the "Clear Blue Digital" ovulation kit. My period was Jan 15-Jan 20, so I start testing started Jan 22 once a day everyday around 2:30PM. Got my first positive on Jan 24, so we intercourse Jan 24, Jan 25, and Jan 26.So my questions are :
1. I test jan 23 not position, then 24 hrs later jan 24 got positive. The box says ovulation may occurs 12-36 hrs later. What if LC surge was actually 23 night, and by the time I tested positive again 24, the ovulation done. Should I test every 12 hrs?
2. After the positive test how many days a women can be fertile?
3. I was thinking intercouse exactly 3 days after my period ending, is it a good idea or that would be too early for the spem be alive?
4. Could pls give me some suggestion about this month ovulation and fertile period based on the calender I provided above. Yes, I am using the webmd ovulation calender and all sort of different apps, but still confused.
Thanks in advance. I am in distress, pls provide me any kind of direction and advise. Thank again!!!View Thread
Does the day of my cycle affect what my results will be?
See, I was on my period from Jan 1st to Jan 4th. I had blood drawn for my hormone levels done on Jan 5fh.
I'm a 21 year old female, who's had her period since 10 years ago. Sometimes I'm irregular, but not always. I've never been pregnant. I don't take any birth control or medications. I'm not overweight. I think that covers it. Ive been suffering with acne since I started having periods.
Also, about 3-4 months ago, i tried taking ortho tri cyclen lo. I took it for 10 days, but had to stop due to the extreme side effects.
That's my background info.
Here are my test results. They were taken a day after I stopped my period.
Estradiol: 46.3 pg/ml
FSH: 4.28 mUI/ml
LH: 7.46 mUI/ml
Progesterone: 1.7 ng/ml
Prolactin: 25.7 ng/ml
Testosterone: 0.43 ng/ml
Does anyone have a chart or anything that I can use? Or does anyone know how to interpret? Please help. The gyno said i'm not ovulating but this was very early on in my cycle.View Thread
My husband and I have a 5 year old litle girl and have been ready for another for over a year.
It has been extremely frustrating as we thought it would be so easy when we were ready to conceive again, It was so easy with our first.
It has not been easy. 7 months. I am at the beginning now of cycle number 8, and all I want for Christmas is to concieve lovingly with my man. I am 25 years old healthy, My Hub is 29 healthy also. Neither over weight. We eat well, take our vits, excersise daily. Why is this so hard? My cycles are 25 days longs, and are exact. We are doing it daily, sometimes even twice!
Today I am depressed. My period came 2 days late which never happens to me. I felt my mind playing tricks on me but I really believed this was it. I even told my mom I really thought it was happening this time! But I am full on bleeding cramps and all this morning. I cried for a good two hours, and my husband doesn't really know what's up. He is dissapointed also, but not like I am I guess. What should be my next steps? Dr. I guess? They say to try for a year right? Someone anyone have any suggestions?View Thread
Recently, we have decided that now is the time to have a baby. Personally, I have been observing fiends and family with their children, particularly the guys. They seems to have so much fun with their kids, there is so much love. I have been feeling that I want to feel that for my child. I am totally on board.
We have unprotected sex all the time, I was thinking that one of these baby batches would catch somewhere...Hasn't happened. We bought the fertility sticks, and now I'm having issues? She got a smiley face, game on...right?
We started trying yesterday morning... We get into it, all hot and heavy, we're both loving it, and all of a sudden "he" goes down... What is wrong here.. this hasn't happened before... Sometimes during the day, I cannot perform for whatever reason, I cannot... So we chalked it up to that and went about our normal Sunday together.
After shopping and housework, we decided to watch a movie. We were all cuddled up on the couch, the movie ended, and we decided to move it into the bedroom. I gave her an amazing massage, she loves when I do that, and I enjoy doing it myself because I know she likes it so much. Then we went into some more foreplay, then it was time... No dice... Once again, this has never happened... I found myself positioned over her like a porn star who just finished...but I never got started. I dont know what is wrong with me. She got really upset and walked away.
After talking in our den for a while about the situation, and how we both want a baby, we decided to go to bed, but if I wanted to try, I could. While in bed, I found myself rubbing and caressing her all over. I felt very stimulated, but no action downstairs... Just call it a day...
This morning we woke up and started talking about this weekend, and how it's on me, and how it's all in my head, and she's just waiting for me... I know this is true, but I don't get it. I've never had this problem (unless im drinking whiskey...but they've got a name for that) ,so what the he*l.
We tried again, and nothing, I can get him up and keep him up, but about two minutes into it, he goes down. This is so depressing. I think it's all about the child anxiety. But I feel so ready. I want a kid. We want a kid. I wish I had answers...
We decided to take the rest of the day off when she gets back from a meeting, it's day two of a two day window... We'll see. Wish me luck.View Thread
I'm about to do ANOTHER round of Provera then Clomid, so I should probably wait a couple of weeks and take a pg test before doing this...just in case the cervical mucus thing wasn't a fluke? Hope this makes sense, I'm kinda all over the place this morning
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I am jealous. Fertility is said to peak at age 24, so I am terrified that I will never be able to naturally conceive. Its tough. Just seeking support from someone who may understand the feeling.View Thread
Before we started trying my period was very regular, then it shifted a day or two, but this month it was 7 days late and I told my hubby I was going to wait to take a test till this morning and what do you know, my period started.
Starting last month, I have HORRIBLE cramps during my period. I am already depressed because I know I am not pregnant and then I feel like I am being tortured by it. I really hope I am not having a chemical pregnancy because then I will know all this pain is my unborn child dying
I have pregnancy symptoms each month and then pain. Please helpView Thread
It hurts to know that all you ladies are having the same issues I have been having also. It does help to read all your comments about how easy you thought it would be to become pregnant, when I as well thought it would be a piece of cake. I stopped taking BC in September and have since been trying. I didn't have a visit from AF during January or February and got real excited and took a PT, obviously coming back neg. I went to the gyn and he did some blood work thinking it was a thyroid issue, that came back neg as well. He started me on Provera and gave us 3 months to conceive. I'm hoping by June we will have a positive outcome. If not it's on to more test. Good luck girls! Baby dust to all!View Thread
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