No, you're not stupid for feeling the way you do. I too feel defective bc my boyfriend (who is in his 40's) and I (I'm 27) have been unable to conceive within the last year and a half. He has 5 kids in total from previous partners, so it's certainly not him who has a fertility problem. I want to cry everyday. I don't have private insurance to cover all the fertility tests they recommend, so I hope and I pray that it will happen on its own, but I'm scared.View Thread