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Emily, Kody, Maxim xo
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Emily, Kody, Maxim xo

Emily, Kody, Maxim xo
Emily, Kody, Maxim xo

Emily, Kody, Maxim xo
up until one tests the hope is strong and alive but those tests are like a real tight rope you either stay on and get the BFP or you get the BFN and it makes you feel like you fell off the rope..(((hugs))) again girl....and thanks for wanting to make me feel better...I actually have processed my grief over this loss better than the previous two losses...I just sometimes catch myself thinking that next month is June and then the realisation that I was supposed to have a baby in June this year brings all of it back...I try not to let myself dwell there because then I end up being so sad, thinking not only about this loss but all the ones I've been through that I end up missing out on life as it rolls by me...I refuse to let the sad moments of my life triumph like that...I keep telling myself that if it's meant to be then someday it will be...
Sorry to ramble on about myself AGAIN...I tend to do that...
I hope all my ladies will have an excellent weekend xoxoView Thread
Emily, Kody, Maxim xo

Emily, Kody, Maxim xo
The memories of those dark days do not ever fade from our minds but time makes things easier to accept and deal with...I am loving your new up beat attitude and I just know we will be hearring good things from you soon!
My downbeat moment today is thinking how I woud stil be hugey preggo right now had I not lost the last one...she would be due next month...View Thread
Emily, Kody, Maxim xo

Emily, Kody, Maxim xo

Michelle- Here's hoping AF goes by fast and that you then hit the jackpot this cycle!!
Ani- I hope that maybe you're on the verge of a BFP...you know stranger things have happened than getting an unexpected BFP especially on those cycles where we feel like we didn't put in enough of an effort or the one when we have no symptoms... fingers crossed and baby dust sent your way!!
Katie- Fingers crossed for you as well and indeed it would be the very best mother's day gift!! Plus it would surely brighten up a day that might otherwise remind you of other things...I am sending you baby vibes and baby dust and everything baby!!
GL ladies and KUP!!
My update: CD20 today...probably in my 2ww..only BD on CD17 so not expecting much..had EWCM on monday (CD18) but wasn't abe to get in any BD...I guess this just wasn't my month to try...
I've also been thinking lately with the weather getting warmer that maybe I would like to wait out the summer before TTC again...I mean we've been trying for almost 3 years now and I don't think taking a break for the summer woud be a bad thing..if nothing else it will at least give us some time to breathe and not stress ourselves out every month...View Thread
Emily, Kody, Maxim xo

Emily, Kody, Maxim xo
Katie- YAY for a positive OPK!! BD prior to O is actually considered very good and BD after seeing your positive OPK is also excellent...while I was using OPKs (only for a few months) I only once saw a positive and that was on my day18 and so we BD on the day of the positive and for two days afterwards and I ended up with a BFP...they say if you keep testing after that positive, once you see a negative OPK then you have O...I will keep my fingers crossed for you babe...GL this cycle xo (also sorry that you had the unpleasant task of having to go to a memorial service..maybe I didn't catch on but was it for someone close to you guys?
Ani- Sorry this cycle is turning into such a long one...are we still waiting for O? I will send you vibes (of whatever kind you need 'cause I'm not sure lol) and hope that the stress you're feeling will go away so you can get back to regular business and soon! xoView Thread
Emily, Kody, Maxim xo

Emily, Kody, Maxim xo

I do hope that you all had a beautiful, relaxing weekend and here's to another week!
My update is really not an update: CD11 today, will be ovulating sometime in the next week so just waiting...View Thread
Emily, Kody, Maxim xo

Emily, Kody, Maxim xo
It doesn't make anything any easier right now but I know that someday we will all understand the bigger picture..
I do like the new attitude and the trick is to take in one day at a time and do like you're doing..lwtting this one day be a good one and then you can deal with the next one tomorrow..and so on..I just wish it wasn't hard for all of us though..
(((hugs))) girl xoView Thread
Emily, Kody, Maxim xo

Emily, Kody, Maxim xo
I'm here tonight because I've been reading this book for the past two days and I'm about to finish it and I wanted to come and share with you ladies..
The book is fiction and was written by Danielle Steele and I'm sure you ladies have all heard of her..excellent writer, love stories and affairs of the heart mostly..
The book I'm reading though is called Mixed Blessings and I just happen to pick this one up out of this old box of books I have laying in my storage closet and I'm so into it right now!
The book is about marriage and having babies, and the hardships we can sometimes face when we go down that road..it is a must read for us ladies..it has brought me to tears but has also made me laugh so hard I cried.... "I feel like a racehorse in training"-from the book

I recommend it ladies it will hit close to home xoView Thread
Emily, Kody, Maxim xo

Emily, Kody, Maxim xo
Going through a loss is never easy and all women go through theirs differently...I myself became unexpectedly pregnant in the summer of 2011 and lost that pregnancy 6 days later but just having that taste of being pregnant all I could think about after the loss was being pregnant again...
I wanted to write you because I wanted to assure you that although you went through an abortion this event will not stop you from having another baby...this is something I know about because I have been through two in my lifetime (and this is something I have never told this board and I hope no one will be judging)...I know that you can go on to have a healthy pregnancy because I did and I know many women who did also...
As for support we are always here for each other so welcome again!
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