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Trying to Conceive: After Loss Community

Making the decision to try again after a lost pregnancy can be hard. Get ... more

Reply: Monday updates 4/8

I knew that if I left the negativity would leave too I hope this one sticks I've...

Myself (Katie, 29) and DH(31) Praying and trying for a 4th child for 3.5 years. 1 missed m/c @ 17 weeks, D/C 3 weeks later on 5/11/12.
As Aragorn says, there's always hope.

Posted by l8dsheena

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prayers..

I hope everyone here is doing well. I wanted to come here because a dear friend of mine...

Myself (Katie, 29) and DH(31) Praying and trying for a 4th child for 3.5 years. 1 missed m/c @ 17 weeks, D/C 3 weeks later on 5/11/12.
As Aragorn says, there's always hope.

Posted by l8dsheena

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Reply: It's a long story..

Thank you so much...I needed your kind words. I'm a little better today. Usually when I'm...

Myself (Katie, 29) and DH(31) Praying and trying for a 4th child for 3.5 years. 1 missed m/c @ 17 weeks, D/C 3 weeks later on 5/11/12.
As Aragorn says, there's always hope.

Posted by l8dsheena

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It's a long story..

I know I said I wouldn't post for awhile, but I literally have no one else to talk to....

Myself (Katie, 29) and DH(31) Praying and trying for a 4th child for 3.5 years. 1 missed m/c @ 17 weeks, D/C 3 weeks later on 5/11/12.
As Aragorn says, there's always hope.

Posted by l8dsheena

I know I said I wouldn't post for awhile, but I literally have no one else to talk to. Yesterday evening was my book club meeting...I was debating weather or not to go, because I had this odd feeling in the pit of my stomach that someone was going to announce they were pregnant. I went anyway. I carpool with a few of the ladies, and most of them already knew that one of my oldest friends was pregnant..including my MIL, and it just casually came up. They all knew I've been struggling for 3+ years, and nobody bothered to break it to me gently. I literally wanted to open the door of the moving car, jump out, and walk home. I was on the verge of asking the driver to turn around and take me home, but that would have been too childish. Nobody noticed that I said hardly anything for the rest of the night.

When I got home I told my DH she was pregnant, and he gave me this weird look I've never seen before. On one hand it looked like pain, he looked like I feel when I get a BFN. On the other hand, it could have been "oh great, now I'm going to have to put up with your moodiness for the rest of the night." I didn't talk about it for the rest of the evening, because I wasn't sure if he wanted to hear me talk about how everyone else was pregnant for the millionth time, or if this whole ttc thing is really starting to get to him. We got into a tiff over something completely banal. After a moment of silence, he said "y'know what? this will be the last thing I say to try and help you, after this I'm done...I think you need counseling. If you want to go, I'll go with you."

I feel very alone...and numb. I just want to feel better. It's like I'm in a pit, and every time I get the courage to climb out, someone I know starts shoveling dirt in my face. I'm starting to feel guilty for being sad all the time. All I need DH to do is just hold me and tell me it'll be ok. But he has a need to fix everything, and I think he believes I'm beyond fixing. I don't know what to do....View Thread

Myself (Katie, 29) and DH(31) Praying and trying for a 4th child for 3.5 years. 1 missed m/c @ 17 weeks, D/C 3 weeks later on 5/11/12.
As Aragorn says, there's always hope.

Posted byl8dsheena

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Reply: Katie

You really don't have to be nice to me because I don't really deserve it, but i...

Myself (Katie, 29) and DH(31) Praying and trying for a 4th child for 3.5 years. 1 missed m/c @ 17 weeks, D/C 3 weeks later on 5/11/12.
As Aragorn says, there's always hope.

Posted by l8dsheena

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Reply: TRIGGS...POS

Yeah, I am having a bit of a s***** day, and I probably shouldn't have even said...

Myself (Katie, 29) and DH(31) Praying and trying for a 4th child for 3 years. 1 missed m/c @ 17 weeks, D/C 3 weeks later on 5/11/12.
As Aragorn says, there's always hope.

Posted by l8dsheena

30 Replies | Reply | Watch This DiscussionReport This| Share this:TRIGGS...POS Yeah, I am having a bit of a s***** day, and I probably shouldn't have even said...

Reply: TRIGGS...POS

I'm not trying to pick on you or anything....when I'm feeling up to it, I go to the PAL...

Myself (Katie, 29) and DH(31) Praying and trying for a 4th child for 3 years. 1 missed m/c @ 17 weeks, D/C 3 weeks later on 5/11/12.
As Aragorn says, there's always hope.

Posted by l8dsheena

30 Replies | Reply | Watch This DiscussionReport This| Share this:TRIGGS...POS I'm not trying to pick on you or anything....when I'm feeling up to it, I go to the PAL...

Reply: TRIGGS...POS

wouldn't that be more of a discussion for the PAL boards? Not to be a party pooper or...

Myself (Katie, 29) and DH(31) Praying and trying for a 4th child for 3 years. 1 missed m/c @ 17 weeks, D/C 3 weeks later on 5/11/12.
As Aragorn says, there's always hope.

Posted by l8dsheena

30 Replies | Reply | Watch This DiscussionReport This| Share this:TRIGGS...POS wouldn't that be more of a discussion for the PAL boards? Not to be a party pooper or...

Reply: Trying again

Good luck with everything lisa...I've never had a PAL, so I don't knowwhat to tell you...

Myself (Katie, 29) and DH(31) Praying and trying for a 4th child for 3 years. 1 missed m/c @ 17 weeks, D/C 3 weeks later on 5/11/12.
As Aragorn says, there's always hope.

Posted by l8dsheena

11 Replies | Reply | Watch This DiscussionReport This| Share this:Trying again Good luck with everything lisa...I've never had a PAL, so I don't knowwhat to tell you...

Reply: TRIGGS...POS

that's cool, I'm happy you can now move on to the PAL boards

Myself (Katie, 29) and DH(31) Praying and trying for a 4th child for 3 years. 1 missed m/c @ 17 weeks, D/C 3 weeks later on 5/11/12.
As Aragorn says, there's always hope.

Posted by l8dsheena

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