My husband and I have been trying for over 5 years to get pregnant. This has been so unbelievably hard. I was told I have "unexplained infertility". I have been to fertility doctors. They have not been very encouraging. I realize it is not an exact science. It just seems like every one around us are starting families and I just cannot seem to get pregnant. I just turned 41 and to be completely honest, I cried most of the day on my birthday because I realized it was one more year added on that decreased my chances even further. It is good to have this forum to just talk about it with other people who really do understand.View Thread