Just thought id ask for thoughts and prayers. I go for my first "baby maker" appointment with my ob exactly a week from today. I have no idea what he will tell me or what's going to happen but I think of you ladies alot (especially Pray and CEB) and I was hoping to get lots of thoughts, prayers, and baby dust that this dont take too long......Im already getting the feeling that DH may be changing his mind......He's starting to try to distance himself from the idea.....Idk....only time will tell........................thanks alot ladies!!
He put me on provera back in Jan or Feb of last year. I took it every other month and i havent taken any since April of last year. My cycles started comin in on their own but they were infrequent......i have now timed them down to 78 days apart.
Oh my lol yea that is kinda funny......men find things like that soooo embarassing!!! I think they fail to look at what we go through in the process of TTC and then finally with the birth (God willing).
lol im sorry but thats too funny lol id be laughin at him instead of the nurses!!!!!!!!!! lol i think my dh is happy about the fact that he gets to do it at home though i dont think hes happy with the idea at all lolView Thread
Wow lol I dont think my DH could do that in one of those little rooms lol..........all he'd be thinkin about is how many other guys were ever in that room and how nasty that made the room lol hes paranoid like that............I couldnt imagine bein asked if i needed something like that!!!!!!! thas just crazy! lol then again my DH would prolly say yes................hes weird like that too lol......i swear hes 34 and has the libido of an 18yr old lol......the only other thing is that the docs told us we couldnt BD for three days.............easy enough i think but we'll see!!!
thanks for your thoughts and prayers and replys hun!!!
thank you soo much for telling me!!!!!!!!!! lol i told me DH when i got home and he wasnt too happy (all he kept saying was really? seriously? lol) but he said that he would do it! Im sorry but i think it is kinda funny that he would be that paranoid but hell if i was a guy and had to do it then i prolly would think the same thing!! thanks again hun!!
Just thought I'd stop in rel quick while I had a second. Well, my appointment was this morning and you were right (as if I ever doubted you!) He put me on Clomid 50mg and I am also still to take the Metformin which I just realized is 500mg. I am insulin resistant and all that jazz. So as of right now we are just waiting on AF to show her bitchy little face so we can get this ball rolling..........OH! One question ladies!!! Have any of you ever had to take in your DHs semen? He wants to check my DHs motility and said that all I have to do is get a sample cup from the lab where I get my bloodwork done and have him.....well....you know.......into the cup and take it back to the lab within an hour. Have any of you ladies done this? If so when is the best time to do this? I thank you all for the constant thoughts and prayers! I think of you all everyday and I hope that we all get those BFPs!!!!!
Thank you for the thoughts and prayers hunny. I think of you and CEB all the time and I pray that you get that BFP that you are looking for. I understand the scared part.........I think I'm more scared that he will tell me that I cannot have kids and that will tear me apart but I will never know unless I try. That's my thought........the doctors have fair warned me that this might be a long road but I have responded quickly to random things (they put me on provera to kick start a cycle and I had one with the first round..a perfect (srry tmi moment) 7 day bleed cycle) so they said theres still hope. I believe that its never too late and that there is always hope!
Keep believin Pray and it could and will happen for you. I know that it will!
Thanks for tellin me about your "first" appointment went. I'm hoping that they give me clomid but i think because my cycles are so long that they might put me on bcp for awhile to try to get them to shrink a little bit........I tell you I have never been soo nervous for an appointment in my life lol. I know that he's going to tell me to lose weight and all the jive so i think im ready to hear whatever he has to say!!
Man o man! I didn't think that losing this weight would be this hard. ( I am 5'4" and 265....I'm a lard a#$ I freely admit it lol) I've been trying hard for the last 3 years to lose weight but it just doesnt seem to happen. I have tried everything that I can think of but nothing seems to work. I almost to the point of just eating like a tiny meal once a day. I've followed too many diet routines and mel plans to list. Is anyone else having troubles? I would like to have a weight loss buddy if anyone is interested (I'm very competitive lol). Thanks for letting me vent guys!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
It means alot to me that you all "listen" to me!!!
Yes I am currently on metformin but im not sure of the mg of it. See my body is weird ( or my mentality is lol ). Even when I feel sick or don't feel like eating (stomach is flip floppin) I still have to eat. I don't know what else to do....